I hate insecurity.

I’ve seen it bring out the very worst in me and in others. It’s crazy how we can be insecure about how we feel about ourselves or the way someone else feels about us and that insecurity will cause us to lash-out instead of letting love win out.

Instead of showing an abundance of love to the ones we are insecure toward, we put up a wall of defense and go into attack mode. Fight or flight kicks in every time.

Insecurity. It’s rooted in fear. It takes perfect love to cast out fear (1 John 4:18). I don’t know about you, but I don’t have perfect love on my own. There’s nothing perfect in or about me. That is, at least until the day that perfect love accepted me and came to dwell in me and with me.

When I accept that Jesus has accepted me and given me His perfect love, then His perfect love for me can cast out fear. As His perfect love casts out fear in me and I learn to trust His perfect love for me, then my insecurities begin to lessen and fade away as I learn that I am secure in Christ.

Are you secure in Christ? Are you secure in His love for you? Is His perfect love casting out fear in your life?

Let’s focus on learning to trust our Savior’s perfect love. Let’s be reminded today that we are secure in Christ. We don’t have to live our lives in the darkness and fears of our insecurities. We don’t have to continue to hurt others or ourselves as we live in fight or flight mode due to insecurity. We’re secure in Him, and if God is for us who can be against us?

Study these Scriptures and let the perfect love of your God cast out every fear that creeps into your heart and mind and spirit:

I AM SECURE IN CHRIST

I am free forever from condemnation

Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death. Romans 8:1-2

I am assured that all things work together for good

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28

I am free from any condemning charges against me

Who will bring a charge against God’s elect? God is the one who justifies; who is the one who condemns? Christ Jesus is He who died, yes, rather who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who also intercedes for us. Romans 8:33-34

I cannot be separated from the love of God

For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39

I have been established, anointed, and sealed by God

Now He who establishes us with you in Christ and anointed us is God, who also sealed us and gave us the Spirit in our hearts as a pledge. 2 Corinthians 1:21-22

I am confident that the good work God has begun in me will be perfected

For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus. Philippians 1:6

I am a citizen of heaven

For our citizenship is in heaven, from which also we eagerly wait for a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ. Philippians 3:20

I am hidden with Christ in God

For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God. Colossians 3:3

I have not been given a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-discipline

For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline. 2 Timothy 1:7

I can find grace and mercy to help me in time of need

Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need. Hebrews 4:16

I am born of God, and the evil one cannot touch me

We know that no one who is born of God sins; but He who was born of God keeps him, and the evil one does not touch him. 1 John 5:18

I’m slowly reading through Grace Abounding to the Chief of Sinners by John Bunyan. I was reading in it yesterday and Mr Bunyan was sharing how he was in the midst of a great temptation to be insecure in his relationship with Christ, even with his salvation and his understanding of the validity of the Scriptures and the truth that Christ is the only way unto salvation. He shared how this temptation lasted for at least a year.

I wish that I could tell you that if you go through this challenge and you learn exactly who you are in Christ you will be fixed forever—but I can’t. The tempter still seeks to devour you, to condemn you, to make you doubt, to discredit you. He seeks to destroy you.

However, as you strengthen your faith muscles by walking in God’s Word and living by the truth of God rather than your feelings, you will be stronger in faith. As you grow in knowledge of Him and His grace, you will grow in His love. And as you grow in His love, that perfect love will begin to cast out you insecurity.

You, precious one, are secure in Christ.

—submitted by Nicole Vaughn, Proven Path Ministries, US