Today Mother’s Day is celebrated in my corner of the world. We take our moms out to eat, send them cards, and post our love for them on social media sites. I’ve noticed that most people don’t praise their mom for being a dynamic speaker, an inspirational leader, or an accomplished musician. We love our moms for much simpler things.

Paul explains why in his chapter on the spiritual gifts. He says that in the body of Christ, “the parts we regard as less honorable are those we clothe with the greatest care. So we carefully protect those parts that should not be seen . . . . God has put the body together such that extra honor and care are given to those parts that have less dignity” (1 Corinthians 12:23-24).

Paul is delicately referring to our sexual organs, the most earthy—and for that reason appreciated—members of our body. He says this priority on the practical is also true of our spiritual gifts. The gifts we each receive are necessary for the health of the whole body of Christ. We may possess gifts that quietly minister or more public gifts such as teaching, music, or leadership. But what others most appreciate are the practical ways we love them.

The Corinthians longed for the impressive gift of speaking in tongues, which edified no one unless an interpreter was present (1 Corinthians 14:1-5). Paul encouraged them to “earnestly desire the most helpful gifts” (1 Corinthians 12:31), gifts that would “strengthen the whole church” (1 Corinthians 14:12). Spectacular gifts may impress others, but only practical service will make them feel loved.

How can we truly love others and have a good possibility of them loving us in return? Imitate a loving Mom. Meet basic, physical needs—showering them with the love God has poured out on us.

NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Job 1:1-22