The world’s biggest sperm bank is turning away redheads. (No, I’m not advocating the use of sperm banks.) Why is Cryos International rejecting “ginger” donors from its ranks? Because not enough clients want red-haired children. In fact, the only country that has a high demand for redheaded donors is Ireland—a land known for people with lovely red locks. Personally, I think red hair reflects the beauty and creativity found in every child—all made in God’s image.
Solomon, in Psalm 127, gives us God’s view of kids: They’re a gift (Psalm 127:3). Regardless of the color of their hair, children are a blessing given to parents to love and care for them (Psalm 103:13). Each child has been specially designed and created by God, and His “workmanship is marvelous” (Psalm 139:14). If children are healthy, with no mental or physical disabilities, they have been carefully created by God. If they’re not healthy, with mental and/ or physical disabilities, they have been carefully created by God (Exodus 4:11). All children have been “woven together in the dark of the womb” under His watchful eye (Psalm 103:15).
In a world where perfection is demanded and people often live vicariously through their children’s appearances and accomplishments, it’s easy for children to be rejected if they don’t measure up. Should kids lovingly be held to reasonable standards and behavior? Absolutely. But God knows our strengths and weaknesses and still loves us. Parents should follow His example.
You might not have children or you might have a whole “quiver . . . full of them” (Psalm 127:5), but as you interact with precious little ones made in God’s image remember that they are a gift! They’re worthy of respect and love and capable of teaching us something about faith (Mark 10:15). They should be received in love and never rejected because of the way God has made them.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Matthew 6:1-18
More:
Read Colossians 3:21 and consider what the apostle Paul is saying about the wrong way to raise children. What are some positive parenting practices found in God’s Word?
Next:
How have you been reflecting the love of God to the children in your life? What are the keys to balancing expectations and understanding as you raise children?
winn collier on July 1, 2012 at 8:17 am
In a world where too easily either reject or sentimentalize children, thanks for reminding us of the gift God gives us with our children.
tom felten on July 1, 2012 at 1:36 pm
Winn, it’s so important to keep in mind that our children are both fallen (sinners), but also made in God’s image (his “very good” creation). It helps us balance our discipline and our nurturing—striving to love them the way God loves us.
mike on July 1, 2012 at 9:04 am
Amen my Brother, I have the privilege of being a parent of a child with a disability. My God knit her together perfectly in her Mothers womb and she was planned with purpose.
Thank you for the beautiful reminder of the gift.
tom felten on July 1, 2012 at 1:37 pm
Thanks so much for sharing, Mike. It sounds like your daughter has a very special daddy!
Ethan on July 1, 2012 at 11:20 am
The phrase “carefully created by God ” is so powerful and assuring! We all are created by a Perfect God and live on a beautiful journey He designed for us,whereby He is there ready to play a role of a father,teacher,friend,healer,provider and saviour.
Thanks for allowing God to deliver the message through your writing. It really teaches me something!May God bless you and your family!
tom felten on July 1, 2012 at 1:41 pm
Thanks so much, Ethan. Isn’t it great to realize God is both good and sovereign? This brings tremendous peace and hope to parents who love Him!