One Saturday last year, my family rode our bikes to the downtown city market. Each weekend, the market takes over a parking lot and presents a diverse group of vendors’ booths. The place overflows with organic produce, baked goods, and every imaginable artisan craft creation (jewelry, paintings, woodwork, and more).
My son set his eyes on a colossal-sized muffin. Preparing to pay for it, I stood in line behind an elderly woman. Tall but slightly stooped, she wore a faded denim shirt and a flowing blue skirt. Her silver hair touched her shoulders, a beauty undiminished by her age. Attempting to step away from the table, the matron turned toward me. She caught me unaware, and I froze. We met face to face, only 2 or 3 inches separating us. Without any hesitation, she smiled wide and pointed a finger at my goatee. “My, my,” she chuckled—her kind, raspy voice barely more than a whisper. “Isn’t that a cute mustache!” Then she shuffled past me.
That simple human exchange brought me joy for days to follow. It seemed the most natural thing for that precious woman to put her hand to my face, to hold my eyes with hers, to speak a word of delight.
Paul knew the power of such simple humanness, of kindness—energized by the Holy Spirit—extended to those we encounter. “We all belong to each other,” the apostle reminds us (Romans 12:5). We need one another. We were intended for human words, touch, and compassion. And this isn’t (primarily) a call for grand, overwhelming gestures and sacrifice. It’s simple kindness, extending hospitality and a warm welcome.
“If you have a gift for showing kindness,” says Paul, “do it gladly” (Romans 12:8). May God’s kindness flow through us to others.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Jeremiah 36:1-32
More:
Read Romans 12:9-10. What do you think the difference is between pretending to love others and really loving them?
Next:
What was the impact on you when someone showed you true kindness? When God offered you His kindness? Where (and to whom) will you offer kindness today?
Gary Shultz on May 25, 2015 at 7:29 am
You are right, and it somewhat pains me to say that. Not because there is anything wrong with the words, it’s because the finger often points to me on this subject. It should be so easy to say something nice; that’s all just make a positive gesture. For me, more work, more discipline, more seeing people through God’s eyes……….. I’m Ok with facial hair, but it may be some time before I remark on your looks. Thanks
Winn Collier on May 29, 2015 at 3:35 pm
yeah, Gary. It doesn’t take much. Kindness takes root quickly.
Mike Wittmer on May 25, 2015 at 11:52 am
You have an eye for seeing the profound in the ordinary events of life, Winn. Isn’t it interesting what small exchanges make such large impressions? I wonder what small gesture I can offer today that might make a big difference for someone.
Winn Collier on May 29, 2015 at 3:37 pm
Me too, Mike. I’m in the bustling (and often dehumanizing) bowels of Dulles airport today. I’m going to see if I can offer some human kindness as well…