I went through a phase where I stopped going to church. I had no friends yet in the new city where I had moved and I simply didn’t want to walk into a church alone. The longer I put off taking steps to meet people and to get involved with the body of Christ in my new community, the more isolated I became and the more I struggled in my faith.
During that season of my life I missed out on the encouragement the writer of Hebrews says I—and all believers—need in order to remain hopeful and strong in our walk with the Lord (Hebrews 10:23-25).
Now, there certainly are times when we should temporarily embrace solitude to study, to pray, to concentrate and more. But then returning to fellowship with others helps us keep our grip on the “hope we affirm” and maintain our confidence that “God can be trusted to keep His promises” (Hebrews 10:23). Lack of fellowship keeps us from experiencing the motivation from others to do “acts of love and good works” (Hebrews 10:24).
Paul so deeply recognized the need to commune with believers that he weathered storms and traveled hundreds of miles to be with his brothers and sisters in Christ. He told them, “For I long to visit you so I can bring you some spiritual gift that will help you grow strong in the Lord. When we get together, I want to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours” (Romans 1:11-12).
When believers come together and devote themselves to “the apostles’ teaching, and to fellowship, and to sharing in meals (including the Lord’s Supper), and to prayer,” as nearly 3,000 did in Acts 2:41-43, a “deep sense of awe” in the Lord can be experienced. We need true community in Jesus.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Matthew 13:44-52
More:
Read Romans 1:13 and note how Paul persevered to spend time with a community of believers in Jesus.
Next:
Why did the writer of Hebrews encourage believers to spend time in community? What will happen if you draw closer to other believers in your local church?
bluefigtoast on July 11, 2012 at 1:52 am
Easier said then done. I have Aspergers/Autism so some social situations that others might encounter (we call them NT’s — neuro typical) are absolutely frightening. Meet and greet, is quite difficult for us to manage.
I was fortunate in finding an online community of believers, in which to become actively involved. CBC has been a life safer. This is a viable alternative to brick & mortar, traditional churches.
Autistics such as myself, tend to socially isolate. Now I can fellowship with other believers around the world, via live online chat.
Small lifegroups give the element of accountability.
Wayno
lindagma on July 11, 2012 at 7:12 am
Isn’t it wonderful to see how God meets each one of our needs…whatever we are dealing with. It warms my heart to see how He has provided for you.
ptmtrt on July 11, 2012 at 2:22 am
By nature I am quite an introvert.i tend to stay away from big group of fellowship.
Thank God for blessing me with a prayer partner and a cell group to meet regularly. We need one another as the body of Christ.
To God be the glory.
tom felten on July 11, 2012 at 1:26 pm
Thanks for sharing, ptmtrt. Your experience with a prayer partner reminds of me of Proverbs 27:17: “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” May you continue to sharpen each other to God’s glory!