Have you ever been having a heated conversation with someone and impulsively said something mean? As soon as the words left your mouth, you knew the kind of negative impact they would have on the person. You then realized you had thrust a ‘sword’ that could never be retracted. Or have you ever done something (not necessarily a sin), only to realize later that you acted hastily and your action could not be erased? The Bible describes this type of behavior as rashness—acting without careful consideration of the possible consequences or risks.
Although things said and done rashly are not always sinful, they generally show a lack of wisdom (Proverbs 19:2), are linked with quickness to anger (Proverbs 14:29), and are open invitations to being shamed (Proverbs 25:8). There are many biblical examples of this type of behavior and its subsequent consequences in Scripture.
Jepthah acted with rashness when he made a vow to sacrifice the first person or animal he saw coming out of his house to meet him (Judges 11:31-39). Uzzah reached out and touched the ark of the covenant (2 Samuel 6:6-7). Rashness seized Moses and caused him to strike the rock (Numbers 20:10-12). It also motivated James and John to call down fire against the Samaritans (Luke 9:53-54) and it impelled Peter to cut off Malchus’s ear (Matthew 26:51-53).
Here are some antidotes for rashness: acknowledge and submit to the sovereign rule of God, trust His guiding presence and appreciate the importance of considered and well thought through speech and actions. When we’re filled with the Holy Spirit and experience His fruit (Galatians 5:22-23), our rash ways will go away. So, as the apostle James said, let’s “be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry” (James 1:19).
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Luke 7:1-17
More:
Read Proverbs 12:18 and notice what metaphor or word picture is associated with rashness.
Next:
In what current life situations do you need to be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry? What do our rash actions say about our relationship with God?
lindafrances on July 5, 2012 at 8:45 am
I find that it is with those who I am closest to, my husband, that I must guard my tongue. It is easy for me to say something to my husband without thinking and later have to apologize. You would think we would not hurt those we love the most so easily, but I sometimes do.
Added to my morning prayers:
Set a guard over my mouth, O LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips.
Psalm 141:3
alli on July 5, 2012 at 10:04 am
being impulsive is the blues. i am exhibit A, its MUCH better to be slow and steady the turtle has become my favorite animal, not saying you need to delay but being rash has done nothing but get me into bad situations some of which i couldnt reverse. its not worth it if you have a bad temper or problem with self-control it would do you well to slow down and get away from people who cause you to make quick judgments…bad company corrupts…
tom felten on July 5, 2012 at 10:21 am
Marvin, love your thought that acknowledging God’s sovereignty can help us to avoid rashness. As we submit to His divine will, we can find greater peace and less impulsiveness!
winn collier on July 5, 2012 at 10:42 pm
With two boys who sometimes push my last nerve, this is a good word…