While Khalid Sheikh Mohammed awaited trial for plotting the 9/11 terrorist attacks, some US citizens were nervous that he might be acquitted by an inept jury. Others hoped that that would be precisely what happened. If they had turned Khalid out into the angry streets, it wouldn’t have taken long for New Yorkers to exact their revenge. I certainly understand the reason why, but it overlooks the bigger picture.

If you’ve ever been to the top of the Empire State Building, you know that—from God’s perspective—the people of New York City look like ants. If God is to us as we are to ants, imagine a colony of carpenter ants systematically chewing up the foundation of your house. You could call the exterminator, but for reasons that aren’t entirely clear you decide to stop their destruction by becoming an ant yourself.

The ant leaders are threatened by your arrival, and not knowing what else to do, they incite a mob that mocks and then kills you. What they don’t realize is that you will come back from the dead—for you are more than just an ant— and that your death and resurrection will grant forgiveness and everlasting life to any ant who repents of his destructive ways and follows you (1 John 1:9).

Now imagine that one of those ants that believes in you is bullied by another ant. The aggressive ant commits unspeakable acts that heap incalculable misery upon the redeemed ant. It would be normal for the victimized ant to strike back and get revenge. But what if she remembers the higher logic of the human who became an ant?

We are that ant, and every time we are sinned against we get to choose: Will we live by the laws of the anthill or forgive as God has forgiven us? (Matthew 18:35). —