My family was eating at a mall food court. My middle son couldn’t finish all of his food, so he got up to find a take-home box. After being gone for quite a while, he finally returned. When we asked him why it had taken him so long, he told us that customers kept jumping in front of him and that the servers kept looking over him. As I held back my tears, I told him about a child in the Bible that Jesus didn’t overlook.

Jesus was discussing His upcoming betrayal and death, but His disciples didn’t get it. It’s likely they failed to grasp Jesus’ words due to the fact that they were busy arguing over who was going to be the greatest (Mark 9:34). Sitting down, Jesus taught them a vital discipleship principle—greatness is open to everyone, all who are willing to be last and a slave to all (Mark 9:35).

His point was that His kingdom is about position— the lowest one. Then He drove home the point with a powerful and literal illustration. He placed a child—a culturally helpless, emotionally vulnerable, and socially invisible child—among the disciples, embraced him, and challenged them to welcome him in His name. In welcoming him, they would be welcoming the Father. Jesus was teaching that greatness in the kingdom of God is all about ministering, especially to those of lower status.

Because Jesus led through suffering and humility, we’re called to lead through serving instead of being served. Jesus wants us to embrace humility instead of pride, and to be first to serve the culturally vulnerable instead of the socially powerful. We can live out this counter-natural principle by repenting of our status-consciousness state, entering the world of suffering with the sufferer, embracing the socially invisible, and by serving people intentionally and unexpectedly.