Some things make me angry. Newspaper columnists who belittle life-long marriage; radio hosts who rile against refugees; the big glossy advertisements for brothels in my local newspaper; climate-change proponents who label their critics ”deniers” to silence them; climate-change critics who label their opponents “alarmists” for the same reason. Yes, some things make me angry.
Jesus became angry (John 2:13-17; 11:33). One Sabbath He was preaching in a synagogue when a number of His critics were present. In a provocative move, Jesus called to a man with a crippled hand and had him stand in front of the group. “Does the law permit good deeds on the Sabbath,” Jesus asked, eyeing His critics, “or is it a day for doing evil?” (Mark 3:4). Silence. “Is this a day” (we can imagine Him speaking louder now), “to save life or to destroy it?” Still silence.
God made the Sabbath as a time for rest and renewal (Exodus 20:8), but by Jesus’ day the religious leaders had made its strict observance a sign of one’s righteousness. No work was to be done on the Sabbath, including, in the Pharisees’ eyes, the healing of crippled men. And Jesus was angry about that—angry at the Pharisees’ hard hearts.
But, astonishingly, we find Jesus being “deeply saddened” by them too (Mark 3:5). His anger at evil wasn’t accompanied by hatred for its perpetrators, but by sadness, grief, compassion.
I ask myself, To what degree do I feel compassion for that columnist, radio host, or brothel owner? Do I feel sad about that angry driver or climate-change critic? I’m not sure how much of my anger is the least bit righteous, let alone combined with compassion.
To feel anger is human. To feel compassionate anger is divine. I want to be more like Jesus.
More:
• Proverbs 14:29
• Ephesians 4:26,31
• James 1:19-20
Next:
Think of someone who made you angry recently. How can you show compassion to that person? If Jesus is the embodiment of God, how might Mark 3:1-6 help us understand God’s wrath?
pjp on December 22, 2010 at 6:41 am
Tnx Sheridan, It’s always crucial to be angry & not sin. It’s a great thing to be like Jesus. we all long for it.
GrowinginChrist on December 22, 2010 at 8:53 am
I have been dealing with someone who I have said to myself has a hard heart for his rejection and condemnation of my turning my life back over to Christ. I get angry, and hurt. I have asked the Lord to forgive me, because only God knows a man’s true heart and what is in it. I will strive to have compassion for him and not be angry for what he refuses to want to know. I pray to be an example of the Lord’s grace and mercy.
Invisible on December 22, 2010 at 9:25 am
Compassionate anger? Isn’t that kind of an oxymoron? I’ve heard of righteous anger, but compassionate?
In my experience the majority (not all) of christians don’t even know what compassion looks like unless you look, talk and act like them. Then again, they’re also well known for shooting their own wounded.
Almighty God doesn’t even see fit to show compassion on his own people so why should his people be any different, and why would anyone expect even an ounce of compassion if they don’t claim to be one of his people.
G-O-D does not care!
daisymarygoldr on December 22, 2010 at 10:55 am
Invisible,
I wholeheartedly agree with you about His people who do not show compassion. But I also know that God cares. It is because of His loving care a sinner like me who deserves nothing less than death is not consumed—for His compassions never fail.
It is my prayer that someday you will also experience God’s loving care shown to you by His people…
unclegene on December 22, 2010 at 11:21 am
Invisible, you must have a major problem which you probably are responsible for and are now blaming God. God does care and if you will get on your knees and repent, you will find God’s compassion.
FCB on December 22, 2010 at 10:54 am
Invisible, perhaps you’re right. Compassionate anger is an oxymoron, but that’s what makes it such a challenge to many, even Christians.
It’s about controlling our anger and understanding that people who say negative things or hurt us have a story of their own and have reasons for acting the way they do. Doesn’t make their actions right, but that’s why it’s such a challenge to be ‘compassionately angry.’
God does care and He does have compassion on His people. Jesus was and is the perfect manifestation of that compassion. If He didn’t have any compassion on us, He surely would not have sent Jesus to die for us on the cross.
I’m sorry for all the Christians who’ve hurt you in the past. Christians are humans too and do make mistakes. But rest assure, God doesn’t =)
daisymarygoldr on December 22, 2010 at 11:07 am
Compassionate anger reminded me of Ps 78:38.
Having grown up in a predominantly non Christian, pagan society, my anger is seldom against secular unbelievers, atheists, agnostics, or freethinkers. Because it is always my hope that someday these lost souls will also have opportunity to know the truth about God and be saved.
The things that make me angry are believers (including myself), within the church. My anger is not at persons but our actions to suppress the truth. Christians who have been given much, have so much Bible knowledge, have tasted the truth and its liberating power and yet for some reason that I don’t know of, hold back from teaching the whole truth. Someone please help me understand why?
Jesus got mad at those who already know the truth and have the key to knowledge (Luke 11: 52), yet are not leading others into the Kingdom of God but are blocking the way—blind guides leading followers into the pit and into captivity. His anger is against evil but His compassion is towards people.
I want to be more like Jesus too. After praying and asking God to help me overcome my anger problem, I realized it is not so much my anger but the zeal for the house of God that lies behind that anger. So, I decided it is better to show that zeal by helping others know the truth rather than spouting it off on those who are withholding the truth.
Some did make me angry recently and I really want to show compassion by praying for them.
Thanks for a thought-provoking post!
AManofGod on December 22, 2010 at 12:07 pm
I can see how the term “compassionate anger” could be seen as an oxymoron…in fact I could see how this could be completely misinterpreted as well.
When Jesus got angry He didn’t do things that He would later regret. In the anger that we usually exhibit we normally calm down and “upon further review” we think to ourselves “gosh I wish I hadn’t said that!” However, once it’s out there…its out there and you can’t take back what you said or did. That’s why we are instructed to be slow to anger….lets we have regrets for some of our actions.
Likewise, some people think anger and passion just naturally go together. That is if you are angry about something you will exhibit strong raw passion. I disagree with this. To show compassion in your anger means that you object to the activity but you still have love for the individual.
Just today my ex stated that I don’t care about our divorce because I don’t get angry or mad anymore. I told her no its quite the opposite. When I gave the marriage to God I no longer felt the need or desire to show anger toward my spouse. In fact once I gave it to God I found I have an entire new love for my ex wife and for marriage. I have forgiven all the things that occurred in the marriage and when I speak there is no anger in my voice…..because my anger is overshadowed by compassion.
It’s not that I don’t get angry about my marriage being over but I have such rich compassion in myself and in my ex through Jesus Christ that some people might never even know I was angry at all.
AManofGod
cuddles on December 23, 2010 at 9:55 pm
Everyone is different some are very easily angered while others are very patient. I known it does myself no good at all when I get angry and respond to someone in that way, but I also know that if someone has upset me I have to have it out with that person to be able to get back on a proper footing with them. I find as I get older it is harder not to get angry as people do not seem to care any more and I miss the caring society I once knew. If we Christians are Gods representatives on earth we are messing up badly. The problem seems to be that although believers in Christ we lack having any real leadership with many religions moving away from the gospel of Christ and misguiding their flock as they do so. Even the younger people within my community are being sucked into believing that success is all about ambition and money. It seems to me that God expects us to make better choices then we are making and when we don’t we suffer the consequences. We learn from our mistakes but we can not learn others from our mistakes so its a slow process. Fight the good fight is what its all about.