Last November, the news about Tiger Wood’s numerous extramarital affairs began to leak out. It became evident that the golfer with the squeaky clean image wasn’t so perfect after all. Since then, there has been a growing debate over whether or not the media has been too hard on Tiger. Some say he deserved to be publicly shamed. Others point out that a lot of famous people have been serial womanizers. They question why the media seems to look the other way when it comes to some other celebrities’ sexual indiscretions, while Tiger gets trashed.
John records the account of the morning when a group of Jewish religious leaders tried to draw Jesus into a moral debate (John 8:1-11). While Jesus was teaching in the temple, they brought in a woman who had committed adultery—publicly accusing her before the people (John 8:3).
After reminding Jesus that the Law of Moses called for her to be stoned, they asked Him what He thought they should do with her (John 8:4-5). John tells us that the religious leaders were looking for Jesus to say something that would discredit Himself (John 8:6). If He didn’t condemn her, He would be disagreeing with Moses. If He was too harsh, He might take a hit in the eyes of the masses that were attracted to His teaching.
Jesus brilliantly avoided the trap they had set by pointing out the sinfulness of the woman’s accusers. He said, “Let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” (John 8:7).
Instead of discussing the moral failures of those who make headline news, let’s remember that we all have weaknesses—places where sin can more easily infiltrate and ruin our lives. By humbly acknowledging our weaknesses to God and others, we can better avoid sins that will destroy us and our witness for Jesus.
More:
Who can say, “I have cleansed my heart; I am pure and free from sin”? (Proverbs 20:9).
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When was the last time you confided in a Christian friend about one of your own personal weaknesses? What happens when we go into isolation with our sin?
AManofGod on November 30, 2010 at 11:15 am
WOW…..it is amazing how a Word from God can come and strike a chord in your heart…..and in your life. Surely this is no coincidence.
I think we all have problems in placing blame where it does not belong and in accepting responsibility when it pains us to do so. It’s much easier to say “I did that because he/she made me so mad” than to say “I did that and I was wrong.” In our shame we try to hide our guilt and we cannot hide ANYTHING from God. In the blog we heard about how this applied to Tiger Woods and the woman in the book of John who was accused of adultery. All of us must learn to accept the responsibilities of our sins and not place the blame where it does not belong…..IT BELONGS TO US! God already knows the truth so no matter what your friends or family think GOD knows what really happened……
and who ultimately is at fault.
AManfGod
Mel-rose on December 6, 2010 at 3:24 pm
to amanofgod,
It strike me when u said that no matter what ur friends or family thinks God knows whats really happened…it brought me to tears coz i have been judged by my own family n friends…it was sooo painful…i cried to God and He never fails to answer me…one pastor once told me we dont owe anybody here on earth, we owe it all to our LORD GOD above..He knows what we all are going through and He will be there every step of the way…
afia on November 30, 2010 at 11:17 am
this is for me, i was bemoaning my honest state about whether i could really be trusted in marriage and came to a conclusion that i cannot, it isn’t something i want to rest in but a character flaw i am discovering, so i read this and am like wow, God must hear my prayers and now i understand why certain things in my life have not transpired and that He is wanting to change me for real from the inside out, i mean i dont have a lot of friends but am like i guess this is why, who wants to b around someone they cannot trust. I want to change, thanks for this post, how wonderful that God doesn’t treat us as people do when we mess up, He’s still faithful when we are not. So we best not judge anybody else.
AManofGod on November 30, 2010 at 11:21 am
Afia,
When you acknowledge your sin and your earnest desire to repent from it God will help you! I went through the exact thing you are going through and trust me God can make it right……seek His Word and you will see that you CAN be trusted.
He trusted you so much He gave His son to die for YOU!
AManofGod
daisymarygoldr on November 30, 2010 at 7:50 pm
I agree, we all have weaknesses and it is simply a part of being human. Hiding our flaws will make us sick—physically, emotionally and spiritually. It is easier to acknowledge it before God since He already knows about our weaknesses.
Confessing our faults to one another requires great humility and is easier said than done. We therefore, find it a lot convenient to confess our personal weaknesses in complete anonymity on cyberspace. In my experience, it is better to share my shortcomings with real (not virtual) believers who pray for me.
When a Pastor or Bible teacher—someone who I look up to, talks about their specific struggles, it fills me with feelings of fear and hopelessness. It encourages me to know what they are doing about it, to see them ask for prayers and through their experience teach us how to overcome those weaknesses.
Also, if someone is struggling with porn, there is no need to describe all the unnecessary details. Revealing details of lust may tempt others to sin or rob them off their innocence, especially if they are younger Christians. It will definitely offend new and weaker believers.
At church where I grew up, we were taught to not disclose the details of our sin even while sharing our testimony.
It is good to always remember, God’s strength is perfected in our weaknesses and His grace is sufficient to help us overcome all our shortcomings.
wofeap18 on November 30, 2010 at 10:04 pm
wow… another WORD of God to ponder..