In 2006, confession of sin became an artistic expression. Two artists, Laura Barnett and Sandra Spannan, created an exhibit in a storefront in Manhattan, which allowed passersby to confess their sins. They sat in the storefront, dressed as 19th-century washerwomen. The words on the window read, “Air your dirty laundry. 100-percent confidential. Anonymous. Free.” Onlookers were encouraged to confess their sins on pieces of paper. When those who “confessed” walked away, however, the women collected their written sins and displayed them for all to see.
James commanded believers in Jesus to confess their sins to one another (5:16). The context for this verse is praying and caring for the physically sick. Praying for the sick, however, included a command for mutual confession and prayer. James was teaching that all sin, especially unconfessed sin, is a dangerous enemy to the body of Jesus. It leads to the breaking of fellowship with God and others, the building of relational walls and the destruction of community, and the prevention of moral change in the lives of believers. Confession brought healing—physical and spiritual.
Scripture reveals that we should first confess our sins to God (1 John 1:9). Then, despite the risks (rejection, embarrassment), we can and should “confess [our] sins to each other.” How? Sin that has affected the body of Christ should be confessed to the body. Sin against a fellow believer should be confessed to that individual. For sin that is not against the body of Christ or a person, we should use wisdom and find a fellow believer to whom we can admit our sins. God gives us divine help as we confess our sins to Him.
There’s great power in a community that is serious about mutual confession and prayer.
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My son, give glory to the Lord, the God of Israel, by telling the truth. Make your confession and tell me what you have done. Don’t hide it from me (Joshua 7:19).
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What are some of the risks and rewards involved in confessing our sins to one another? To what mature believer can you confess your sins?
tony rodriguez on August 23, 2010 at 9:23 am
UNCONFESSED SIN IS IN A SENSE A PRISON. IT WON’T ALLOW US TO PARTAKE IN CERTAIN CONVERSATIONS AND COULD HINDER US FROM WANTING TO GO TO CERTAIN PLACES. WE WOULD RATHER LOOK GOOD TO PEOPLE THAN TO STAND CLEAN IN FRONT OF GOD. I’M REMINDED OF ADAM AND EVE IN GENESIS 2:25 AND THEY WERE BOTH NAKED, THE MAN AND HIS WIFE, AND WERE NOT ASHAMED. NOTHING TO HIDE CONFIDENT THAT THEY WERE CHILDREN OF GOD. UNCONFESSED SIN LETS US THINK WE CAN HIDE IT FROM EVERYONE. THE FIRST QUESTION IN THE BIBLE GENESIS 3:9 AND THE LORD GOD CALLED UNTO ADAM, AND SAID UNTO HIM, WHERE ART THOU? DON’T THINK FORE ONE SECOND GOD DIDN’T KNOW WHERE ADAM WAS. I BELIEVE HE WANTED ADAM TO TELL HIM WHERE HE WAS IN HIS WALK WITH HIM CONFESS IT ADAM. YOU SHALL KNOW THE TRUTH AND THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE. SO IF GOD SAYS TO US WHERE ART THOU? WE CAN CONFESS IT ALL AND STAND BEFORE HIM NAKED AND NOT ASHAMED NOTHING TO COVER OURSELVES WITH LET HIM COVER US INTHE BLOOD OF THE UNBLEMISHED LAMB, AND HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS. GOD BLESS YOU ALL I LOVE YOU ALL MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN THE LORD.
marvin williams on August 23, 2010 at 11:43 pm
Tony, you are absolutely correct that unconfessed sin is a prison in which the enemy desires to keep us. I have found when I have not only confessed to God but to others, there was a great deal of freedom that came over me. The power of Satan is found in the soil of our secrets. The moment we confess our sins to God and a trusted and safe believer, his grip is weakened in our lives.
shofarlee@yahoo.com on August 23, 2010 at 11:44 pm
AMEN. . . . .I like what you have said.
Mel-rose on August 23, 2010 at 4:21 pm
it,s true that we need to confess to God first and then to people our sin, I have done it I have confess my sin to my friends and family, honestly it didn’t turned out to be the best but God had revealed Himself to me in sooo many ways….He had been my conforter when all else was drifting away from me..in Him all things are possible just obey His word and else will added unto you..Have faith!
marvin williams on August 24, 2010 at 12:00 am
I applaud you for doing the uncomfortable and inconvenient. Obedience is almost never comfortable and convenient. There is almost always some sort of temporary pain. Obedience is the key. You demonstrated obedience despite the potentially negative consequences. God is honored by our obedience. Thanks for being an example to all of us.
clu-callia on September 6, 2010 at 7:29 am
n 6 years ago . I am dating a guy at my work place his is a christian. On that time i start know hearing about christian. We are going to church together and he teach me a lot thing of god. .In his church people was disagree him to dating a non christian . So only the pastor know he is dating with me . I don’t want to give him the trouble so we hiding our relationship. He did promise god love me no matter what happen and will married me after i am done for school . we are separated few time but we never break up b/c we are loving each other so much. i know that god is so important to him. He did break up with me b/c i am not christian. So i don’t want to give him the hard time. I do readying bible and go to church. when the time he is not with me i do pray for god. .I do pray for god regarding our relationship. On day i do baptism and found out that i am pregnancy . when I tell him i am pregnancy he did not said anything . He tell me to keep the baby. Give him sometime to think ..But at the same time he told me that he going to planing married with his ex girlfriend who are dating him more 10 yrs ago. b/c what he promise this women before. One day , i hear from my friend that him is engaged . They are going to getting married this Oct. The women know everything he did, but she forgive him. still want to married him. when i call him ask about regarding issue. He said don’t know how to telling me. When i find out that i was so up sad and we are only separated very short period off time. I am confuse that what he told me what’s mean of love. I always though that b/c i am not christian. The people in church want him to go back to the women to get married. In 2 day ago, i do call him ask regarding baby stuff. what he planing to do. But he said that he will going to tell the woman b/c he don’t want to lie to her. b/c he love this women. How can he just love another women so fast. He always tell me that he don’t love this women at all. He start telling me that he so regret what he did to me. He can’t be with me and the baby . I am feel so scare. who’s this person? what kind of man i am with this 6yrs. I feel like i get play with this 6yrs. Did this man love me at all. I am believe god is with me otherwise. In this 5mos pregnancy , Lot of thing is happening around me. my mom is past away. I was crying everyday..b/c the sudden change around me. From the beginning, i though that he still want to be with me. I am keeping the baby b/c he love me.. i don’t want to kill the baby. b/c this the mistake i done. I have to responsible for it. But now i find out that this man doesn’t not love us . why he keep tell me to keeping the baby.. why he keep telling me he still love.. He scare that i going to tell our stuff to other people. Finally, I am waken up.. but is too late. i should know that early, he not going to married me b/c if he want to be with me he have to leave his church and admitted to people what he been done. So no matter how much he love me is not more than he love himself. He will lose a lot friendship in the church. b/c he always is not guy in the church. what he now make a lot of people happy. Because this guy not telling me the true I have to face this trouble by myself. My friend and family they are not support me to keeping the baby. I am have to move out new york city. I am living a new town by myself without any support. . Please pray for me everyday and hope the baby stay healthy. sorry to the bad English.. i try so hard to tell the stories.
What should i going do? Should I going to talk to the women? Should i still believe god? I am a sinner god still going to be with me? Did i going to any future? I am too scare what people think?
summer on September 8, 2010 at 6:10 pm
This is to Clu-Callia,
I feel so bad for what you are going through. This whole thing just proves that we as christians are not perfect, and that we are under constant temptation to sin. It is sad that christians so often sin in front of non christians, and it gives God the bad reputation. That is exactly how the devil plans it. Please know that what this man did to you is wrong. He knew it was wrong, that’s why he was hiding the whole situation from everyone. God still loves him and is willing to forgive him. Please know that God loves you and your baby too.
I wish I knew exactly what to tell you to do to solve all of your problems. You will need to really cry out to God to help you make the right decisions. I can tell you that abortion is not God’s answer, (although he will forgive those that have made that unfortunate choice) but God will be happy if you keep your baby, or if you let it go to a family that wants to adopt it. God wants us to turn to him for all things, so now is a perfect time to run into his arms. Let God comfort you and heal your broken heart. Let him help you make the right choices.
I am praying for you. God bless you & your baby.
mickeymouse on August 23, 2010 at 12:35 pm
I don’t think so!!!!
Confessing my sins to God (and I do) is one thing but confessing to the world is different. I am a very private person,however I do applaud the ones who can.
Does this make me less God-like?
Please respond…….
Sandra
shofarlee@yahoo.com on August 23, 2010 at 11:44 pm
Amen.
marvin williams on August 23, 2010 at 11:46 pm
This is a good solution. However, there will be times where we will stumble and fall. The solution will be to confess to God and to other believers we can trust. There is healing found in our obedience to Scripture and transparency. I know it’s difficult, but it is also liberating. Thanks for sharing your comments. They are so appreciated.
Tyla808 on August 23, 2010 at 3:14 pm
Aloha Sandra,
You must seek the answer in God’s Word.
Marvin explained: “Scripture reveals that we should first confess our sins to God (1 John 1:9). Then, despite the risks (rejection, embarrassment), we can and should “confess [our] sins to each other.” How? Sin that has affected the body of Christ should be confessed to the body. Sin against a fellow believer should be confessed to that individual. For sin that is not against the body of Christ or a person, we should use wisdom and find a fellow believer to whom we can admit our sins. God gives us divine help as we confess our sins to Him.”
My suggestion to you? Keep growing, seeking and most important receiving God’s Word for it is Truth AND Life. Live your life according to His Word. Search out, be a Borean…look up scriptures that speak specifically about confession to God and to man and ask God for patience and love with yourself while you grow and manifest the resolve, courage and strength to be obedient His Word.
God Bless You!
marvin williams on August 23, 2010 at 11:56 pm
This my first response as well. Yet, I wonder if the church has created an environment that has spawned responses like yours. The church has not been a very safe place to actually share our struggles with certain sins, has it? We have created an culture of posers – I’m all right, you’re all – who are fearful of airing our dirty laundry. I think we have created this kind of culture to the detriment of the church.
If the Scripture commands us to confess our sins to one another (I believe we have to be discriminate about who we tell), and we are called to a life of obedience, then I believe we are missing an opportunity to trust God, receive physical, emotional and spiritual healing, and experience authentic community.
Now, I believe we have to grow to a point of being able to share openly and honestly with others. Also, understanding and applying God’s grace to your life is a huge help in getting over this hurdle. I am completely accepted and loved by Jesus.
mickeymouse on August 23, 2010 at 8:54 pm
Thanks for your response & God Bless…..
Sandra
marvin williams on August 23, 2010 at 11:57 pm
Great advice and words of encouragement.