There’s a big, green button at the paint counter of my local hardware store. When you press it, an assistant is supposed to serve you within 60 seconds. If they’re late, you get a discount on your paint.
“Thou shall not wait” seems to be the modern world’s new commandment. And so we have fast food, speed dating, rapid weight loss, next-day delivery, and 60-second service at the hardware store.
While instant fulfillment has brought much convenience, it has a downside. Notice how annoyed we get when the bus is late, the queue is long, or the meals are slow to our tables? Notice our frustration when the illness lingers or our prayers aren’t quickly answered? When “Thou shall not wait” is the mantra, patience becomes a lost virtue.
God is patient. He’s slow to anger, extends grace to both saint and sinner, and spends eons waiting for humanity to repent (Exodus 34:6; Matthew 5:45; 2 Peter 3:9). When God came physically to earth, He spent 9 months awaiting birth, 30 years acquiring knowledge He previously had, and rejected every shortcut He was ever offered (Matthew 4:1-7, 26:53). God’s Spirit also points to patience (Galatians 5:22). And when Paul calls us to live differently than the world, including being patient, he does so after saying we’re “hidden” in this three-in-one God (Colossians 3:1-12). Instead of trying to be patient by our own means, we have inside access to divine patience.
While patience may be a lost virtue, it’s also a revolutionary act. By being patient today with others by God’s strength (Colossians 3:13), and even with God Himself (who doesn’t promise 60-second service), we can be countercultural witnesses in a hyperactive world to His ever-patient ways.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Matthew 21:1-17
More:
Read 1 Timothy 1:16 and meditate on God’s great patience.
Next:
In what common circumstances are you most impatient? How can you allow God’s patience to dwell in you during those times?
ecclesiastes on August 29, 2016 at 5:59 am
Oh yes! Everything has to be done yesterday! When I write something on a blog or on a social media site it is instantly available for everyone to see anywhere in the world. Not sure if that is always a good thing. We all need to remember Psalm 46:10 ” Be still and know that I am God”
Gary Shultz on August 29, 2016 at 6:09 am
There are some hot buttons here Sheridan. I must continually talk to myself when I am driving to calm down, slow down, and chill. We have an epidemic of “road rage” and impatience. Couple that with a good dose of rudeness and blood pressure is climbing. It is difficult to try to return a little of that patience God seems so willing to have with us. I am learning when circumstances are beyond my control, it may be a good lesson to put my control beyond the circumstances. Thanks Sheridan
hsnpoor on August 29, 2016 at 11:17 am
“put my control beyond the circumstances”. Gary, that’s a journal entry and I am really and truly going to remember that one. Thank you!
sandy229 on August 29, 2016 at 11:50 am
Yes I was going to say something to Gary about that Kim……..I really like that!!
Tom Felten on August 29, 2016 at 8:14 am
Impatience is so much about expectations and what we believe we deserve, isn’t it? When I consider how Jesus humbled Himself and became obedient to death on a cross, how He patiently loves me in spite of my sin, how He is patiently waiting for more human beings to turn to Him and receive salvation . . . all of those things give me a renewed ability to be patient with others. We serve a loving, patient God!
sandy229 on August 29, 2016 at 10:20 am
Amen Tom!
hsnpoor on August 29, 2016 at 11:21 am
Absolutely, Tom! Expectations should be a 4-letter word. They fuel both our happiness and our unhappiness; our joy and our sorrow, our pleasure and our pain, etc. The only cure I know is the one Jesus demonstrated in Gethsemane; “Not my will, but THY Will be done”.
Tom Felten on August 29, 2016 at 2:08 pm
So true, hsnpoor. Contentment lived out is such a beautiful thing . . . and something so perfectly lived out by Jesus.
Sheridan Voysey on August 29, 2016 at 12:19 pm
Spot on, Tom. There is much entitlement behind our impatience. Mine anyway.
Thanks, friend.
Tom Felten on August 29, 2016 at 2:08 pm
Mine too!
hsnpoor on August 29, 2016 at 7:24 pm
I’ve got to join this bandwagon too, much to my dismay. I just got called out about this very thing recently…:(
gagirllive on August 29, 2016 at 8:23 am
Amen, Sheridan. We need this good word today. I have a pretty laid back temperament so “waiting”, in general, is not very problematic for me. However, I am learning that patience means far more than the ability to wait. God is concerned about our heart attitude. How we act WHILE we wait is important to Him. If we wait with a bad attitude then we are not letting patience have its perfect work in us. (James 1: 4) I know that James wrote that in the context of trials, but I still think it’s applicable in any situation that we have to exercise patience. God is at work in our character while we are waiting in line at the drive-thru or grocery store just as much as He is while we’re waiting for employment or the return of good health or for our prodigal to come home. The circumstances don’t matter. He wants us to be humble, submissive, and trusting because He’s working out His good plan in us and for us. One of my pocket verses for patience is Psalm 27: 14—“Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the Lord!” That’s where I turn when I find myself starting to get antsy about waiting and begin to ask, “How long, Lord?”. I remind myself that He is sovereign over everything in my life, so ultimately I am waiting on Him, and by His grace I am learning to be encouraged in the wait. I pray that this fruit of the Spirit will be more evident in all of us as we walk with Christ today! Thanks, Sheridan.
sandy229 on August 29, 2016 at 10:18 am
What an encourging word GAgirl, thank you for your comments.
Shalom
hsnpoor on August 29, 2016 at 11:24 am
You know that sign when someone takes their middle & index fingers & points to their eyes and then to yours? That’s my reply, GG! Thanks for the reminder that patience is more than “waiting”…..
Sheridan Voysey on August 29, 2016 at 12:20 pm
Some good insight here, gagirllive. “God is at work in our character while we are waiting in line at the drive-thru or grocery store…” Yes! Now, to let Him do his work while we wait in line.
minkjh on August 29, 2016 at 8:40 am
Having recently retired from spending much of my life working in the service industry, I can echo ecclesiastes comment about everything needing to be done yesterday. However, more times than not that mindset turned out to be nothing more than hurry up and wait when all the facts presented themselves. Sheridan, I’m glad you noted the 2 Peter passage because just imagine our eternal hope if God adopted the world’s perspective regarding our coming to the faith. Thankfully He chooses to show mercy toward His elect.
Sheridan Voysey on August 29, 2016 at 12:04 pm
Oh man, if God was impatient? We would be in trouble indeed! Thanks minkjh
sandy229 on August 29, 2016 at 10:25 am
Good word for today Sheridan! Thank you.
Shalom
Sheridan Voysey on August 29, 2016 at 12:21 pm
Thanks sandy229. Needing to remember it myself!
johnswanson on August 29, 2016 at 2:14 pm
All that “stuff” is vanity, so in my old age I’m in no hurry to receive any of it any more…
hsnpoor on August 30, 2016 at 11:51 am
If I remember correctly, you’re 72. Considering I’ll be 63 in November, let’s agree that the acquisition of “stuff” is indeed vainity and 72 is NOT “old”, okay?