Simon’s mother was 18 when she fell in love with a man who showered her with the affection she lacked at home. Their romantic tryst was short-lived, however, and he quickly returned to his wife and family when he discovered that she was pregnant.
Simon grew up not knowing his father. During a visit to church with his uncle, however, he gave his life to Christ and for the first time experienced the love of God the Father. Today, Simon is married, has two children, and—with the help of godly mentors—is daily growing in his walk with Jesus.
The neglect of a mother, absence of a father, or abuse of a caregiver doesn’t have to define you or your future destiny. In Christ, you have a hope and a future. In 2 Chronicles 34:1-2, we read that King Josiah did what was right in the eyes of the Lord and followed the ways of his ancestor David. Josiah’s father was Amon, who had done evil in God’s eyes (2 Chronicles 33:22-23).
This shows that our future doesn’t have to be determined by family members or authority figures who have treated us wrongly. In Christ, we become a new creation—the old life is gone (2 Corinthians 5:17). Josiah chose not to continue in the evil ways of his father. Instead, he laid claim to his lineage in King David, a man after God’s own heart (1 Samuel 13:14; 2 Samuel 7:13-16). Josiah walked in obedience to the one true God all his days (2 Chronicles 34:33).
In Christ, we’re children of God and can lay claim to a heavenly inheritance and lineage (Galatians 3:26; Ephesians 1:18; 1 Peter 1:4). We’re anchored by our faith in a perfect Father—a divine lineage! (Hebrews 6:19).
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Luke 14:1-14
More:
Read 2 Chronicles 17:1-6. Note how King Jehoshaphat was devoted to serving God and following the ways of King David rather than the ways of his biological father King Asa.
Next:
What can you do to focus on your new identity in Jesus and rise above any examples of poor parenting that you might have experienced? How can you help bring light and life to future generations of your family?
Gary Shultz on August 12, 2014 at 5:57 am
I feel no matter what has brought you to our Heavenly Father, one will find more, much more than could ever be found in any earthly parental relationship. All of His promises are true and He is as close as our next breath, always. Thank you.
Tom Felten on August 12, 2014 at 10:45 am
Ruth, I was talking with a friend last week about how hard it can be for people who have had bad fathers to trust in a heavenly Father. Praise God, however, that He can break the bonds of bitterness and pain cause by human relationship—freeing us to believe in and receive the love of a compassionate, kind, and perfectly loving Savior!
Wayne on August 12, 2014 at 3:47 pm
I agree with Tom, well stated Tom Felton !
Jesus is coming, Wayne
Ruth O'reilly-smith on August 12, 2014 at 11:59 pm
hi Gary, Tom and Wayne – I think much of our deep wounding comes from unmet expectations and disappointment in those entrusted with the responsibility to love and care for us, rather than hurt or abandon us. I’m so grateful that Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever (Hebrews 13:8), that God will never fail us or abandon us (Deuteronomy 31:6).
Tom Felten on August 13, 2014 at 8:23 am
Amen, Ruth!