The late film director Krzysztof Kieslowski was once interviewing actors for a film. During an interview, a young actress described to him how she’d go out and walk the streets of Paris when she felt sad.
As Kieslowski probed further, he learned that 6 years earlier the actress had been close to a breakdown. One day she went out onto the street where she caught sight of the famous French mime artist Marcel Marceau—now a very old man. The actress walked past him, then stopped and turned to give him another glance. Marceau also stopped and turned. He then gave her a big smile lasting several seconds. “He saved me then,” the actress said. Kieslowski and the actress pondered whether all the performances Marceau had ever given compared to the fact that he helped save a young actress with his smile.
Like that actress, millions in our communities walk through life wondering if they matter to anyone. You can reassure them. The apostle John tells us to put our love into action (1 John 3:18). What simpler act of love is there than smiling at someone you pass on the street? While others avoid eye contact, showing indifference, you can imitate the God who is love (1 John 4:7-8). His giving love is revealed through our loving acts (1 John 4:9-12). The gift of your smile shows that you care enough to acknowledge their existence and their great value.
Drive-through restaurants and self-serve checkout lanes go against friendliness. Things like these make it easy to live without looking anyone in the eye. As an act of discipleship, let’s go out of our way to meet people and smile at them. You never know—someone in crisis might just taste God’s grace because of it.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Deuteronomy 31:1-8
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Read Acts 10:38 and note why Jesus was able to do good and brighten the lives of others.
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How will you apply the simple act of smiling at others today? In some cultures, eye contact is considered confrontational. What’s a good alternative?
Wayne on February 25, 2014 at 3:32 am
God loves everyone we should too. Take time for people, show a interest & smile, you never know how that could help ? Smile !
Waynee
Gary Shultz on February 25, 2014 at 6:45 am
Nicely done; we so often miss the opportunity to exchange such simple, wonderful, warmth.
Gene on February 25, 2014 at 7:32 am
A genuine smile instead of grumbling or arguing in the midst of our “warped and crooked generation” can be a great witness. We will “shine like stars in the sky” (Philippians 2:14-16). I think this is a witness in any culture.
Sheridan Voysey on February 26, 2014 at 3:27 am
You’re right, Gene. I’m in Italy typing this. I can’t speak the language of this culture but a smile still communicates powerfully.
tommyb1 on February 25, 2014 at 8:38 am
AMEN!!!
tgustafs on February 25, 2014 at 9:52 am
God loves using little things to make a big difference! Thanks for sharing this post.
Roxanne Robbins on February 25, 2014 at 1:59 pm
Good stuff, Sheridan. …A friend of mine made an effort to go through the same toll booth on the way home from work daily so she could build a rapport with the booth worker instead of simply rushing by. By being intentional about how to invest in a mundane drive, she blessed the toll worker tremendously.
Sheridan Voysey on February 26, 2014 at 3:28 am
I love that. I’m making an effort to engage the postman, and the guys who deliver our groceries.
sercher on February 25, 2014 at 3:47 pm
Seems like an extremely hard thing to do, smiling to a stranger, that is. But who knows, you might accidentally smile at Jesus.
Sheridan Voysey on February 26, 2014 at 3:29 am
Indeed.
Mike Wittmer on February 27, 2014 at 1:32 pm
Amen! It’s often the little things that make all the difference.
Winn Collier on March 4, 2014 at 8:51 am
I really love that story. I want to be that guy.