As someone who has logged a lot of time in the coastal waters of Florida, I’ve always enjoyed seeing bottlenose dolphins up close in the wild. That’s one reason I was particularly drawn to the movie Dolphin Tale.
Based on a true story, the film is about a fatherless and disheartened boy named Sawyer who finds great joy and meaning in the rehabilitation of an injured bottlenose dolphin named Winter. Sawyer looks up to his older cousin Kyle—a championship swimmer. But Kyle withdraws from his young cousin after he returns from the military with a damaged right leg.
In a moment of frustration and self-pity, Kyle yells out to one of his doctors that he can’t swim anymore because he’s “broken.” His doctor, who refuses to let Kyle wallow in the waters of self-pity, responds by picking up a drinking glass and dropping it on the ground, shattering it into hundreds of pieces. The doctor then turns to Kyle and says, “Now that’s broken.”
Life in a fallen world will injure us—sometimes very deeply (Psalm 34:17-18). When something painful happens, Jesus doesn’t want us to deny or minimize our hurt (John 11:33-35). Nor does He want us to sink in the waters of despair. He knows we’re hurt, but not “broken.” Not in the complete sense of the word.
The wounds of life don’t have to break our spirit (Psalm 34:20). We can resist the lie that we won’t ever experience meaning or joy again. In time, God can put the wounds of life to work for His kingdom purposes (Psalm 34:22). Allow Him to use your pain to sensitize your heart to what is most important in life. Let Him make you more sensitive to the needs of those who’ve experienced similar heartaches.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Ecclesiastes 12:1-14
More:
Read Psalm 55:22 and see what we should do when the hard things of this world threaten to overwhelm us.
Next:
How have the wounds of life tried to break your spirit? How might God be using what happened to make you a more considerate and compassionate person?
alli on May 21, 2013 at 10:05 am
Yes sometimes life is very unfair
winn collier on May 28, 2013 at 5:09 pm
interesting. I haven’t really thought on this distinction between ‘hurt’ and ‘completely broken.’ Reminds me of Augustine’s idea that there is no such thing as ‘complete evil’ but rather a good that has been twisted and gnarled. Augustine didn’t believe evil was able to have it’s completely own (independent) identity or energy. It wasn’t that powerful but could only twist a good thing into a bad thing. In this sense, nothing is every completely lost or beyond hope of redemption. That’s where my mind went anyway…
regina franklin on May 30, 2013 at 8:14 pm
Powerful words, Jeff–“The wounds of life don’t have to break our spirit (Psalm 34:20).” Thanks for the reminder that no heartache is beyond God’s healing power (Is 61).