In 2013 Dr. Ad Vingerhoets, a social and behavioral scientist from the Netherlands, wrote a book called Why Only Humans Weep. He’s one of only a few scientists who have dedicated their lives to studying why people cry. Vingerhoets states that “tears are of extreme relevance for human nature. We cry because we need other people.”
Lamentations 2 is part of a poem written during a painful and tearful time of need—need for other people and for God. It’s about the destruction of Jerusalem, the suffering and exile of its people, and God’s anger at their sin. The prophet said that He “brought unending sorrow and tears upon beautiful Jerusalem” (Lamentations 2:5). He went on to say, “I have cried until the tears no longer come; my heart is broken. My spirit is poured out in agony as I see the desperate plight of my people” (Lamentations 2:11).
Years later, a poet also wrote about tears and the exile of Israel, but in a new light. Psalm 126 says, “When the Lord brought back his exiles to Jerusalem, it was like a dream! We were filled with laughter, and we sang for joy. And the other nations said, ‘What amazing things the Lord has done for them.’ . . . Those who plant in tears will harvest with shouts of joy. They weep as they go to plant their seed, but they sing as they return with the harvest” (Psalm 126:1-2,5-6).
Human suffering is all around us. On any given day we can read stories of profound suffering in the news. We can find it in every city. At times, it fills our own lives.
But our hope is in the same God who returned the exiles to Jerusalem. As John wrote, Jesus will someday “wipe every tear from [our] eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain” (Revelation 21:4). That will be a new and glorious day.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Job 38:1-41
More:
Read Lamentations 3:19-23 and consider the faithfulness of God, even during times of great suffering.
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Is there something painful in your life right now? What hope do you have in the power of Jesus?
bighrnmtns on May 10, 2017 at 7:05 am
Humans are not the only living beings who weep. There are many other living creatures who weep as well, and their hearts experience sorrow and pain.
This study does not seem to be very thorough, but I suppose it is useful in relation to the referenced biblical situation.
andylrogers on May 10, 2017 at 9:35 am
Thanks for this comment. I’m not well-versed in biology. Just a casual reader. What other living beings weep? I’m curious to know! Thanks for reading.
-Andy
hsnpoor on May 11, 2017 at 7:44 pm
I’d like to know as well…
hsnpoor on May 11, 2017 at 8:06 pm
I may be very misinformed, but I’m thinking if you are not a human life form, than you are of the animal kingdom or a plant lifeform and one of the characteristics that set humans apart and above animals and plants is that we are created in the image of God, and as such we feel and are sensate & cognitive in a way that animals are not. We want to perceive & project our sensate feelings on our pets, but I doubt if that is justifiably legitimate. I actually don’t doubt that animals can cry, but their reasons for doing so are not as broad or encompassing or informed by the same reasons that a human being would cry. Any animal experiencing pain is going to cry out. The Bible tells us that all creation groans and cries out as a result of the fallen nature of the world in which we live. But, I’m 62-years old and I’ve had a dog in my life almost every day of those 62-years and I’ve never known one to cry because I or another dog hurt their feelings.
conmeo on May 10, 2017 at 7:10 am
Thanks Andy for this vision. Thanks to God for the new and glorious day coming through, with and in His Son. Praying for those in spiritual and physical tears that the Peace only He can give will abound in their lives. Those tears will bring forth a wonderful harvest! Healing Father it is Your will; have it be so. Amen
andylrogers on May 10, 2017 at 10:10 am
Thank you! And amen.
floridapossum on May 10, 2017 at 7:34 am
Eight years ago, the, Lord sent me a small dog out of nowhere. She came at a time I thought my life was no longer worth living. Last week he called her home. My heart is breaking over and there is no relief in sight. I pray that the Lord will help ease my pain and reunite us again in heaven.
davedon on May 10, 2017 at 7:45 am
I pray that the Lord will give you peace and His love will wash over your pain right now. May you feel His comfort and His love even in this difficult time. Blessings to you.
Julie Schwab on May 10, 2017 at 7:59 am
I am so sorry to hear this! I never understood the pain of losing a pet until I lost the one I grew up with last November. It happened at a difficult time in my life and it broke me. God sees your pain, and He feels it with you. In John 11, even though Jesus probably knew He would later raise Lazarus from the dead, He still wept. He felt every emotion we feel when we lose someone even though He knows that, in the end, as this devotional says, “there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain” (Revelation 21:4). Even though it hurts, God is still good. I’m praying for you for peace today.
andylrogers on May 10, 2017 at 9:38 am
I’m sorry to hear about this. I’ve had a few pets over the years and I know how much it hurts when a trusted companion passes. I’m sorry! I’ve prayed for you today as well.
-Andy
envirotact on May 10, 2017 at 9:40 am
We took our beloved cat of 16 years to the vets yesterday for a biopsy and he has cancer under his tongue. They give him only weeks to live….maybe less. This am, we have a pre-trial hearing on the foreclosure of our home of 27 years. Our hearts are broken. Many, many tears and fears, but we are trusting in the Lord’s love for us and His perfect timing in all this. Can’t wait to go Home – the place without tears.
Monica Brands on May 10, 2017 at 12:14 pm
I am so sorry to hear this, praying for you. A loyal pet can be the friend who brings the greatest healing and unconditional love in times of pain, and to lose your companion during everything else you’re going through – I am very sorry. Praying you are surrounded by the love and support of others as you walk through this painful time.
sandy229 on May 10, 2017 at 12:53 pm
I am so sorry to hear this…It’s so hard to lose a family member, and yes pets are family members. I pray that God will be with you through these storms and help you to know that He is always with you no matter what. Sometimes God does give us more than we can handle. . Ask the apostle Paul, who penned these words in 2 Corinthians 1:8-9:
“We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about the hardships we suffered in the province of Asia. We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired even of life. Indeed, in our hearts we felt the sentence of death.”
Paul’s agonizing choice of words, “under great pressure,” “far beyond our ability to endure,” and “despairing even of life,” show us that the difficulties he and the other disciples experienced were well beyond their human ability to handle.
But God won’t let us face it alone, He promises to be there with us, and never leave us. 1 Peter 1:5-7 “You are being protected by God’s power through faith for a salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time. You rejoice in this, though now for a short time, you have had to struggle in various trials so that the genuineness of your faith-more valuable than gold which perishes through refined by fire–may result in praise, glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ”. James 1:12-15 “A man who endures trials is blessed, because when he passes the test he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love Him. No one undergoing a trial should say, “I am being tempted by God.” For God is not tempted by evil, and He Himself doesn’t tempt anyone. But each person is tempted when he is drawn away and enticed by his own evil desires. Then after his desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin, and when sin is fully grown, it gives birth to death.” God does not lead us into troubled waters, He will be with us through them but He does not lead us to them.
sandy229 on May 10, 2017 at 9:46 am
No matter what we are facing, we know that God loves us and will see us through. That’s why we don’t have to worry about anything, because we trust in Him for all things. Sometimes it may seem like life is too hard to carry on, but our hope in Christ is our reason for living. Christ in us is our Hope of Glory!! I am so sorry for your loss, I know the pain of losing a pet that means the world to you. After my Mother died in 93, we found this cat a man left at the store and took off. I took this cat home and he helped me through the pain of my Mother going home to be with the Lord. This cat lived to be 21, and it still brings tears to my eyes whenever I talk about it, but God was with me through it all and I couldn’t have gone through this alone. Please remember that God loves you and will see you through this. I am praying for you and others are as well.
sandy229 on May 10, 2017 at 9:51 am
I was sure by now
God You would have reached down
And wiped our tears away
Stepped in and saved the day
But once again, I say “Amen”, and it’s still raining
As the thunder rolls
I barely hear Your whisper through the rain
“I’m with you”
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away
CHORUS:
And I’ll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I’ve cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
I remember when
I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry to you
And you raised me up again
My strength is almost gone
How can I carry on
If I can’t find You
But as the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
“I’m with you”
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away
CHORUS:
And I’ll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I’ve cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
I lift my eyes unto the hills
Where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord
The Maker of Heaven and Earth
CHORUS:
And I’ll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I’ve cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
CHORUS:
And I’ll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
And every tear I’ve cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
Tom Felten on May 10, 2017 at 8:14 am
Andy, I’m reminded of the short but profound verse, “Then Jesus wept” (John 11:35). His tears speak to the fact that he understands our pain and He is with us in it.
andylrogers on May 10, 2017 at 9:39 am
Thank you, Tom. That’s a great point! A whole other article could stem from that idea . . . 🙂
suny219 on May 10, 2017 at 8:53 am
Praying for you.
crossman61 on May 10, 2017 at 9:08 am
Thank you Andy for the reminder, that one day we will no longer experience pains and sorrows. I am looking forward to that Glorious Day !! Pain and Suffering can get one to grow weary at times, Not only physical pain, but emotional pain, can be more damaging to us than we realize. Some physical diseases, can not be understood by medical science. Our minds are very powerful. And also our hearts/emotions. Proverbs 4:20-27 some Wise instructions for us to guard our hearts. I’m sorry I got off topic a little.
andylrogers on May 10, 2017 at 9:40 am
Thank you for reading and for sharing these thoughts. It’s never a bad thing to read some of the Proverbs. 🙂
-Andy
pabk on May 10, 2017 at 9:25 am
Have been missing gagirl for sometime, now it seems as if Gary Schultz has gone AWOL too. Anyone knows anything about either of them? Am praying that they are both well.
andylrogers on May 10, 2017 at 9:41 am
I don’t. Maybe the others do? I’ll let them weigh in on their own. Thanks for praying for them.
-Andy
sandy229 on May 10, 2017 at 9:56 am
I’ve noticed that lately Gary has not been here every day like he used to and I’m not sure why but GAgirl is going through something and we just need to pray for her. It has been on going. We just need to pray for her that God will see her through. I’m pretty sure she still reads these even if she is unable to comment, so she will know that you are praying for her. Thank you for you concern and prayers.
Shalom
hsnpoor on May 12, 2017 at 6:53 pm
Gary is taking a well deserved vacation in a place where Wi-Fi is iffy. He’s well and hasn’t abandoned ship. He’ll be back posting as soon as he makes it back to civilization…..
sandy229 on May 14, 2017 at 5:59 pm
Thanks for letting us know Kim.
Shalom
sandy229 on May 10, 2017 at 10:01 am
Thank you Andy for your timely devotion today. I know there are many who are going through trials and they just need to know that God never leaves us or forsakes us. They need to know God will be with us through the storm.
Shalom
andylrogers on May 10, 2017 at 10:11 am
Thank you, Sandy229. 🙂
hsnpoor on May 11, 2017 at 8:23 pm
Floridapossum, I am so very, very sorry about the loss of your pet. I know how that feels and can only say that time will help ease the pain. Envirotact, I know you feel like the Lord has given you more than you can bear, but don’t let your feelings overrule what you know to be true in your heart. He has NOT given you more than you can bear mainly because it’s at times like this that he shows up strong and mighty in our lives. Draw closer and nearer to Him and let him hold and console you and walk you through this trying time. My prayers are with you both. I’m so very sorry.