As my sister reads books, she regularly highlights sentences and jots down notes in the margins. One day, while riding a train, she was underlining a passage when she overheard a mother reprimanding her child for doodling in a book. My sister quickly put her pen away, not wanting the toddler to ignore her mother’s words by following her example. The child simply wasn’t capable of understanding the difference between a book loaned from the library and a purchased copy—the difference between vandalism and making personal notes in the margin.
My sister’s actions remind me of some inspired words Paul wrote down on the use of our personal freedom: We don’t always have to exercise it; sometimes we limit it for the sake of others (see 1 Corinthians 10:23-24).
In this passage, the apostle was pointing the Corinthians to a paradigm shift in the way they viewed personal freedom. The believers in the young church saw their freedom as an opportunity to pursue personal interests. Paul wrote that, instead, they should view it as an opportunity to benefit and build up others. In other words, they were to use their freedom to choose edification over gratification and others over self (1 Corinthians 10:33). One author puts it this way, “My liberty is no big deal. The big deal is that my brother grows in his walk with Christ.”
You may be thinking, Why should my freedom be limited by what someone else thinks? Paul answers, “Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). We honor Him when we put His preferences, plans, and program first—led by the Holy Spirit and inspired by Scripture.
May God provide the grace we need to exercise our freedom in ways that truly honor Him and bless others.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Hebrews 10:19-39
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Read Romans 14:13-16 to see similar insights on the use of personal freedom.
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How can you be more considerate of others in the exercise of your freedom? Why does it honor God when we’re careful in what we say and do around others?
broadway2 on December 16, 2016 at 3:22 am
Living for others!!! All that the world needs to be in peace. May God’s name be glorified forever!
Poh Fang Chia on December 16, 2016 at 3:39 am
Amen!
Gary Shultz on December 16, 2016 at 3:37 am
Hi Poh: The post is a shading contrast to ODB where people thought they had freedom to sin with out consequences. Our thought is true freedom scripturally should allow us to flow into areas of conscience that we understand not to be sin; however, others may have difficulty accepting that as something we can freely do. I liken it to driving, I may drive around a corner at the posted speed limit and my little car may zip around it without difficulty; however, it may startle another driver and cause them to loose focus while navigating that same corner, causing some risk. I legally made the corner but cause another driver distress, or worse. We can not afford that kind of life demonstration to our fellow believers at those points. However; there some times when some folks just have to get a grip, as they drive so cautiously that almost all driving is adversely affected. A good reminder Poh, live life, but think of others, Thanks Poh, May Christmas bring joy to you.
Poh Fang Chia on December 16, 2016 at 3:40 am
I like your driving illustration! Thanks, Gary. Merry Christmas to you too!
gagirllive on December 16, 2016 at 7:32 am
I like that illustration too, BWO!
hsnpoor on December 16, 2016 at 4:15 am
Oh my, Poh Fang, this devotion got my mind churning down so many tracks because there are so many aspects to this teaching, depending on whether you’re on the sending or receiving end and where you are in your walk with the Lord. I’m not usually up this late (or early, depending on how you look at it), so I’m not sure I’m ready to pursue that train of thought. But, considering the season, I would like to share something someone shared with me for my birthday last month: JOY! Jesus-Others-Yourself. This devotion so reminded me of that acronym that has become so much a part of my life since my friend shared it. It’s based on one of Jesus’ most important teachings and I think it’s so dear to me because of who shared it. But it’s so important to me because of where I live and transact life. I live in the Silicon Valley in Northern CA. & there is no ignoring the sense of entitlement and lack of care and concern for others that is just flagrant in how people live their lives in this area. There are some exceptions, but this me, me, me mentality is so prevalent as to be the norm. Remembering JOY helps me to be mindful that this is not & should not be my norm, as a child of the King, and to act accordingly. Please take note that I’m sharing this not to toot my horn but because I am just awestruck and amazed at how the Lord is rising up in me to teach me and do things with me to reach out and touch others that I know I would not have done had not my awareness been elevated by my friend sharing the JOY of the Lord in a way that spoke to my already believing spirit. Blessed be the Name of the Lord!
gagirllive on December 16, 2016 at 7:35 am
J-O-Y….I remember hearing that some years ago. Love it!
Poh Fang Chia on December 18, 2016 at 8:19 pm
A friend just came back from Silicon Valley and highlighted to me the challenges of living in that city. Praying for you as live as the “salt and light” there.
gagirllive on December 16, 2016 at 7:18 am
Cute story, Poh Fang. True faith really does express itself through love, doesn’t it? ( Gal 5: 6) I like how the beloved apostle said it, “We know we gave passed from death to life because we love the brethren.” (1 John 3: 14) Love for our fellow believers—sacrificial at its maximum and considerate at a minimum—is, after all, the identifying mark by which the world will know that we are Christ’s. In a world where there is hardly a glimpse of common courtesy anymore, to lay aside our personal freedom in matters of conscience for the edification of another is a very striking display of unselfishness. The sense of entitlement to our “rights” is something that we as believers need to mortify every time it rears its ugly head. We can ask ourselves, “Do I love this brother/sister more than I love my freedom to do this thing?” The answer to that question is a gauge worth paying close attention. Thank you, Poh Fang, for this exhortation today. Merry Christmas to you! “Let earth receive her King!”
gagirllive on December 16, 2016 at 7:37 am
Oops! Typo in 1 John 3: 14…”We know we have…”
hsnpoor on December 16, 2016 at 11:15 am
GG, you do have a powerful way with words! “sacrificial at its maximum and considerate at a minimum” is just a brilliant summation in a nutshell! Writing that one down on your journal page…:)!
Poh Fang Chia on December 18, 2016 at 8:22 pm
Thank you, gagirllive, for adding so much depth to this meditation. Merry Christmas to you too!
BearPair on December 17, 2016 at 8:06 am
Thanks Poh Fang for this great reminder! In this “me-centered” world, we often forget how important to consider how we are being viewed, what effect our actions will have on those around us. Merry Christmas to you & your family! Terry & Patricia
Poh Fang Chia on December 18, 2016 at 8:24 pm
It’s a reminder that I need to hear often as well. It’s so easy to be me-centered rather than Christ-centered and others-centered. Merry Christmas to you and your family too!