Icy roads define winters where I live. One day last winter my commute to work was bad. As the light turned green, the car in front of me struggled in vain to slog into the intersection. No traction. Wheels spinning furiously, the vehicle finally nosed into the crossing—after the light had turned red. This meant that I didn’t move an inch . . .
Why are you driving with bad tires in this lousy weather? I thought as I waited for the next green light. And then I felt guilty. My first inclination hadn’t been to help the driver; I simply wished he were out of my way.
Jesus said the law is based on two commandments: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart” and “love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:37-40). My “neighbor” in that car didn’t need my rude thoughts; he needed a push.
Much of Old Testament law seems obscure. But there were reasons—some specific to the time and culture—behind every rule. It’s easy to understand Deuteronomy 22:1-4, which instructed the Israelites to care for their neighbors’ property and animals. But why does verse 8 say, “When you build a new house, you must build a railing around the edge of its flat roof”? The rooftop is where guests stayed when they visited. As the verse explains, “That way you will not be considered guilty of murder if someone falls from the roof.”
The larger point is that God wants us to consider the well-being of others. We don’t live by a set of detailed rules for each specific situation. But we can live moment by moment with the guidance of the Spirit behind the law that says, “Love your neighbor.”
Rather than wishing my neighbor were out of my way, may I go out of my way to help him today—revealing the love of God.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Acts 16:16-40
More:
Read Luke 10:29-37 and think about what it means to “go and do the same.”
Next:
Is your first inclination to be impatient with someone? Or to lend a hand when you can? What does God’s love compel you to do?
Gary Shultz on November 2, 2016 at 3:15 am
Ah, Tim, you have the disease too. Driving comprises a large portion of my work and it fouls a large portion of my mind. I have become better, hey there is something to be said for improvement, but I will probably always struggle. One of the reasons is the proof you bring. The passage is a connection to consideration of others. Many drivers have no consideration for others and that angers me more than just about anything. I can understand spinning tires on slippery surfaces, I can check a license plate to see if they are not familiar with the location. My rule is do whatever you want as long as I must not make evasive maneuvers because of your behavior. Well we could both say a lot about aggravation while driving. And my rule is evidence of a lack of grace in these situations, I know it. I think how thankful I should be because it is so much better than walking, I think of the comfort I travel in, and the long lasting safety that God has provided. Yup, one good cut off and my mind is back in critical fire mode. I can understand “road rage” and I do not want to be a part of any of that exhilaration of anger. So I must learn to cool my jets and drive in a fashion that would be unoffensive and show consideration, “grace” to others. Lord help me. Thanks Tim, I need to join group therapy sessions, let’s talk about shopping around Christmas next.
tim gustafson on November 2, 2016 at 6:57 am
Oh Gary, you HAD to remind me of Christmas shoppers. Guess I’ll see you in that group therapy session. “Exhilaration of anger” sounds like a great title for a posting! Yeah, I think you and I are kindred spirits. I have to rely constantly on the grace God loves to give. No excuses, huh? Peace, my brother!
gagirllive on November 2, 2016 at 7:46 am
LOTD! (Laugh Of The Day) I mean, a real belly laugh, Gary!
Tom Felten on November 2, 2016 at 1:34 pm
Love the transparency, Gary! Isn’t it interesting what God uses to sanctify us? 🙂
gagirllive on November 2, 2016 at 7:42 am
Tim, I will rejoice in the day when our new nature will be our first (and only) response! Why is it that our old nature is still set at default?…and it’s out on the road behind the wheel where it most commonly manifests itself. (Thus, the reason why I don’t put Christian symbols/stickers on my car! 🙂 ) Loving God and loving others—sounds so simple, doesn’t it? We should be ready at all times to be usable and used by God. It is a fight to practice self-forgetfulness, but we must. As we live under the control of the Holy Spirit and walk in the awareness of Him, we will see opportunities instead of obstacles. “The LORD helps the fallen…” (Psalm 145: 14) The Good Samaritan was good at imitating Him. I’d like to be too. Thanks for this today, Tim. Grace and peace to all.
Tom Felten on November 2, 2016 at 1:36 pm
Amen, gagirl. Can’t wait for that day!
tim gustafson on November 2, 2016 at 1:55 pm
Sigh. G.G. why is it that we default to THAT setting when we’re driving? (I think I’ve noticed a parallel in social media too.) I fear that it points out that I’m doing things in my own strength. Hence, my need for more transparency with my brothers and sisters, and for more honest face-time with God. Fighting with you, or alongside you, at least! For that self-forgetfulness, I mean. Blessings!
hsnpoor on November 2, 2016 at 8:34 pm
GG, I’ve got that frame around my rear license plate that says “My Boss is a Jewish Carpenter” and I’ve had it for years and years and years. I gotta tell you, it’s helped to reform my road rage considerably. I am ever mindful of that identification and, although I may think rude and unkind things on occasion, I am a class act driver on the road. Unless, of course, I’m in a hurry, or ticked off about something or tired from a hard days work, or…. you get the drift…: )
gagirllive on November 2, 2016 at 9:08 pm
Lol…Kim, if I had that on my car, I’m quite sure I would give someone cause to think (on rare occasions, of course) “Well, your Boss needs to fire you, lady!) 🙂
hsnpoor on November 3, 2016 at 9:36 pm
LOLLL!!! I am so sure that has happened…:)
susieq23 on November 2, 2016 at 10:19 am
I was that person driving with bald tires in the snow in the early 80’s in my early twenties, and slid off the road and had trouble gaining traction. It was an older man that stopped and helped me and I was so thankful, but he did let me know that bald tires were not a good idea! I learned a lesson that day!
mb19339 on November 2, 2016 at 11:16 am
Great comment, Susie, thanks for sharing! Yes, I think we often default to the worst possible evaluation of another person. Like you, it’s often inexperienced drivers/new car owners who drive poorly, and a little grace and guidance rather than judgment is much appreciated by them! Speaking of inexperienced car owners, I wonder how my tires are . . . I should check on that :).
Tom Felten on November 2, 2016 at 1:37 pm
So cool, Susie! He did a loving act and then spoke the truth in love. Great example!
tim gustafson on November 2, 2016 at 1:59 pm
I can relate to that side of the story as well! Which is precisely why I should be much more understanding of people who don’t have good tires. Perhaps they can’t afford better tires. Neither could I at one time. I find that I need to remember things are usually not quite what they seem. There’s usually more to any story than we know.
hsnpoor on November 2, 2016 at 8:35 pm
True that!
youssef1777 on November 2, 2016 at 11:26 am
PLEASE PRAY FOR ME . I HAVE A HARD TIME IN THE JOB . BUT I TRUST IN GOD HE WILL PROVIDE .
gagirllive on November 2, 2016 at 12:42 pm
Praying you will experience the grace of God to meet your need concerning your job, dear brother. Be encouraged.
Tom Felten on November 2, 2016 at 1:39 pm
Praying for you youssef . . . as Tim shared in today’s post, I hope you can show the love of Jesus to your co-workers even if it’s not returned!
tim gustafson on November 2, 2016 at 1:56 pm
Youssef, I don’t know you, but I feel I am learning about you in this forum. And so, I am praying for you in this moment!
kauai143 on November 2, 2016 at 2:11 pm
Youssef1777, praying for you. Remember that you are loved and valued by God Almighty. He is more than able to meet your every need. God Bless
hsnpoor on November 2, 2016 at 8:37 pm
I pray things on the job will resolve to an easier pace and place for you sooner, rather than later.
sim jing ying on November 2, 2016 at 4:48 pm
My first impression would be can’t help but to control my inpatientness even though I can’t help him but first priority is to help him I probably could. God’s love does affect me to love others too.
sim jing ying on November 2, 2016 at 4:53 pm
impatient*