Since the early days of human existence it’s been a constant foe. Recently it came calling in a friend’s life as she lamented her children not walking with Jesus. Another friend bemoaned the death of what had been a loving marriage. A family member looked at me with teary eyes, trying to form words that couldn’t come due to dementia. Another family member, deep in the throes of grief because of her father’s death, said softly, “I can’t believe he’s gone.”
Loss affects us all.
Job experienced unimaginable loss. A good man in God’s eyes, he was concerned that his children possibly weren’t honoring their Creator in their “celebrations” (Job 1:1,4-5). Then, tearing at the very fabric of his soul, all of his sons and daughters died in a devastating catastrophe (Job 1:19). What’s more, nearly all of his servants and hired help were murdered. His vast earthly goods were also stolen, leaving him broke and broken. Then a painful skin condition came calling (Job 2:7-8).
Finally, as if the loss were not cruel and agonizing enough, Job’s wife verbalized lost hope and faith. “Curse God and die,” she said to her husband (Job 1:9).
We can identify with Job’s plight, even if we can’t fathom the extent of it. But we can also marvel at his initial responses. He praised God. “The Lord gave me what I had, and the Lord has taken it away. Praise the name of the Lord” (Job 1:21). He acknowledged God’s rule over all creation. Job said, “Should we accept only good things from the hand of God and never anything bad?” (Job 2:10).
Job had walked with God. But as he came through the fires of loss, he came to know and see Him more fully (Job 42:5). May we do the same as God walks with us through loss.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Matthew 1:1-25
More:
Read Isaiah 41:10 and consider what it says about God being present with us as we face loss in life.
Next:
How have you been tasting the bitter broth of loss lately? Where are you going with your pain? How can God’s presence comfort and steady you?
BearPair on June 9, 2016 at 2:13 am
Thank you, Tom, for this reminder… can there be any higher point in a man/woman/child’s life–even if at a time of severe loss & low–than to be able to say wt Job, “but now I have seen you with my own eyes.”
Tom Felten on June 9, 2016 at 8:29 pm
So true, BearPair. Praise God for how He opens our eyes!
corgimom on June 9, 2016 at 5:58 am
Thank you for this insightful devotional. Although we dread it, when we are stripped of all the things that we imagine make us secure, we realize that only God can save and sustain us. Blessings to those who are working through this process now.
Tom Felten on June 9, 2016 at 8:32 pm
So true, corgimon. And when we’re stripped of the things we think we need, we find that He’s what we truly need!
Gary Shultz on June 9, 2016 at 6:01 am
Hi Tom, I must ask how you are doing? I know the wave of loss and hard times has been leaning on your family and friends. You have briefly mentioned that your body has again been attacked by cancer. We discuss points of faith as you have today, but it is also a gift to us to allow this group of people to care in prayer. You watch over this group and often add comment to up lift us. Job didn’t have too many folks praying for him, we can at least change that for you. I hope you will feel comfortable enough to allow us a glimpse big enough, to know enough, to pray enough. Thanks in advance for sharing again Tom.
Tom Felten on June 9, 2016 at 8:35 pm
Gary, I so appreciate your prayers. By God’s grace, my cancer has gone into remission. Each day is a gift from Him, and I’m so thankful that He allows me to enjoy the fellowship found in the ODJ community with you and all our friends!
gagirllive on June 9, 2016 at 8:51 pm
Praise the Lord, Tom!!! That is wonderful news!…An answer to all of our prayers for you. I’m doing a happy dance, Tom. 🙂 To God be the glory for His healing hand upon you. You are such a blessing, and I’m thrilled that God has more for you! Rejoicing with you, brother!
elegantstarr1 on June 9, 2016 at 10:53 pm
Hallelujah… Praise God!
gagirllive on June 9, 2016 at 8:28 am
Tom, my prayers continue to be with you and your family as you navigate through your own adversities. Thank you so much for this encouraging word today. I know firsthand that God can keep us through ANYTHING if we do like Job—respond to Him in faith instead of our circumstances. Life hurts something awful at times, but we can count on the Lord to help us and hold us through every bit of the pain. I pray that all who visit here today will find new courage to persevere in faith. Believe God. He sees. He knows. He cares. We are not alone. Grace and peace to all.
Tom Felten on June 9, 2016 at 8:38 pm
I love what you wrote gagirlive—”we can count on the Lord to help us and hold us through every bit of the pain.” This has been my experience over and over again. What a kind, loving Father He is!
cragland on June 9, 2016 at 8:54 am
I have been so bad myself i have been struggling with anger and resentment with people and even with my kids. How some people have what they have and never say thank you to God and how i struggle. I really needed to read this because I know that God really knows all about my struggles in life and i just need to leave all with him and be patient. Thank you God for all you do.
gagirllive on June 9, 2016 at 9:44 am
Hi, cragland. May I respond to your comment? I can identify with what you feel. Some years ago I was stuck there, too. Here I was trying to live for God with all my heart yet experiencing struggle after struggle, trial after trial. I looked around me and saw people who could care less about following Christ…even other Christians who seemed nominal in their walk, yet they were seemingly happy and not experiencing trials in their life. It just seemed so unfair. The anger and resentment grew until I was so miserable under the Spirit’s conviction and couldn’t take it anymore. (Praise God for the Spirit’s work!) I had to confess and repent of my sense of entitlement, my ingratitude, and of my judgement of God and people. I realized that everything I have is by His grace…little or much…it’s all undeserved. I began to thank Him for everything. Instead of balking at the adversities I was experiencing, I began to thank God for the many tragedies that, in His grace, He has kept from me and for the opportunity to grow spiritually from the trials—to know Him better, trust Him more, and be conformed more to Christ’s likeness. As far as what I observed with other people, I didn’t really know what was going on in their lives. Things are not usually as they appear. Their life of ease may be very short-lived (here and now). They may be empty on the inside. Why should I envy them? The point I’m making is: Don’t judge your life or God based on your circumstances. All of life is GRACE. If you have been reconciled to God through faith in Christ, you have a reason to rejoice everyday…even through the struggles you face. There are two Psalms that I want to leave with you. They will help you gain a right perspective as you look around you. Twin Psalms…37 and 73 (easy to remember). I hope you’ll read them prayerfully and carefully, my friend. Praying for you today. Be encouraged.
elegantstarr1 on June 9, 2016 at 11:38 am
Hi gagirl…I know that comment was initially for cragland but it spoke volumes to me also. I REALLY needed to hear that. You were right on time…again 🙂 Thank you soooo very much! Hearts ♡ and hugs to you! Be Blessed!
elegantstarr1 on June 9, 2016 at 12:28 pm
Ok gagirl, it looks like my comment was truncated, so I decided to return, try again and at least express my gratitude for your timely message. I’m sure you’ve encouraged many of us by sharing. Thanks again and be blessed!
gagirllive on June 9, 2016 at 12:49 pm
I think I read your full comment in the email that was sent to me, elegantstarr1. For some reason it will appear truncated on the board, but the person you replied to gets the full comment in their email…I think. ANYWAY…to God be the glory! So glad it spoke to you…and to you, too, Kim…if you are listening. How awesome God is to turn our misery into a message that honors Him and blesses others. You all have blessed me countless times on this forum through your sharing. What a great community to be part of!!! Hugs to each and everyone. 🙂
hsnpoor on June 9, 2016 at 11:46 am
gagirl, that was a wonderfully on-point sharing that ministered to me, as well. Truly the Holy Spirit lead you to reference those two Psalms because I can’t imagine any others being as perfectly suited and instructive to the subject matter at hand. God bless you for taking the time to share your heart with cragland today. God has clearly added a blessing to your words!
Tom Felten on June 9, 2016 at 8:39 pm
Amen, cragland. He does know exactly what you’ve been experiencing and how you’ve been struggling. Thank you so much for sharing from your heart.
godlove on June 9, 2016 at 9:39 am
Great insightful devotional today, Tom. I’m extremely impressed by Job’s reaction to his major loss. We truly can’t fathom the extent of his plight, when in a few minutes his entire universe, which he had undoubtedly spent all his life building, crumbled before his eyes. Yet, in that moment, he understood that all that we have in this world comes from the grace of God, and he found the strength to praise God for having given it all to him in the first place. To make things worse, he didn’t even have the right people around him to give sound counsel. May we always recognise God as the One and Only divine Provider, and may we be good counsel to those going through difficult situations around us. Thanks for this reminder, Tom; also, courage and God’s grace to you as you face your own trials.
gagirllive on June 9, 2016 at 10:02 am
Amen, godlove. I read somewhere that grief is deaf…that we shouldn’t say too much to a grieving person but instead just be there with them and for them. Sounds good to me. It’s interesting that Job’s friends responded this way initially but later tried to play God in his life. A lesson to all of us to not judge the trials of others or even our own…to be okay with not knowing “why”. Hope you are still enjoying your unexpected blessing, dear brother. 🙂
godlove on June 9, 2016 at 3:01 pm
“My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord. “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9) We don’t always need to know “why”, I totally agree with you gagirl. Nice, sounds good to me too, I’d rather just be there with a grieving person and for them, maybe because usually I don’t even know “what” to say at such times.
Oh wow, you still remember that 🙂 Thanks, my dear sister, I’m certainly still fully enjoying it at the moment. Not sure this comment fits in here with this devotional but I would say I’m learning more and more everyday about our heavenly Father’s bountiful love and grace and His unconditional goodness towards us. I know He does so much more unexpected and unimaginable stuff for us than we get to notice but it’s great when I actually do notice some of it. It’s comforting to know that He cares for every need, even those we haven’t even thought of worrying about yet, and He doesn’t require us to judge ourselves or anyone else, only His grace abounds. I struggle a lot with the concept of grace and sometimes feel so much guilt when I sin, thinking God will be so angry with me that He won’t care for me any longer. I’m so happy to know how patient He is and to know that He can still perform miracles for me, even when I think I’ve hit the lowest low. Sorry, you got me started here, I could go on all evening. 🙂
gagirllive on June 9, 2016 at 4:13 pm
Praise for who God is and His goodness in our lives always has a place on this forum, godlove…no matter the day’s topic. 🙂 It is interesting that so many of God’s children still struggle with embracing and enjoying His grace. I think it really grieves God’s heart, to be honest. I am just BEGINNING to understand it and the fact that God sees me as completely righteous in Christ. He has removed not only our sin but the stain of sin which is guilt. What you feel when you sin is the Spirit’s conviction (which is a good thing), but the enemy wants to turn it into condemnation. Romans 8: 1 tells us that there is no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus. Apply 1 John 1: 9 every time you sin. Thank God for His grace. Then go forward in continued fellowship with the Lord. We are children of God. His disposition toward us is always love and grace…unfailing, unconditional, unmerited favor. Completely counter-intuitive for us but true. Praying we would all grow in this understanding, brother, more and more. Be blessed.
godlove on June 9, 2016 at 4:42 pm
Thanks for those verses dear sister. I like what 1 John 1:10 says as well, because I always think I have to be perfect to benefit from God’s love and blessings, meanwhile as you rightly put it: His disposition toward us is always love and grace…unfailing, unconditional, unmerited favor. I pray that understanding this will enable me to enjoy His love better. Blessings to you, my sister. (Hope this doesn’t get truncated)
hsnpoor on June 10, 2016 at 3:02 am
“Grief is deaf”…. That’s a keeper. I can ever remember Job’s friends names, but I do remember that the one thing they did right was sit with him IN SILENCE when they first arrived. Oh, but once they opened their mouth…..oy vay! Long way of saying I can remember “grief is deaf” much easier than the names of his friends and what they said & did. Thank you for that, GAgirl!
elegantstarr1 on June 9, 2016 at 12:07 pm
Thank you Tom for another wonderful devotional. Even though I’m aware of the story of Job, it prompted me to read more.
I’m also interested in how you’re doing? I continue to lift you and your family in prayer. We both know what our God can do. Jesus is a Healer and He specializes in miracles! He’s done it for me and my family…He will do it again for you. Thank you Lord!
Tom Felten on June 9, 2016 at 8:42 pm
So appreciate your caring words, elegantstarr1. God, in His providence, has given me a season of renewed health. Praying that I’ll use it for His glory!
hsnpoor on June 10, 2016 at 3:07 am
So very glad to hear your report of praise and look forward to seeing how the Lord will continue to use you to bless others and glorify His name! I pray you continued health and strength for the journey.
hsnpoor on June 10, 2016 at 3:03 am
Amen!
samgaskill on June 9, 2016 at 4:11 pm
Dear forum friends! Lately I’ve had a hard time logging in because of too many redirects? I live in the country so I think its the slower than slow internet we have : ) But anyhoo…..I was able to check in today and having read the devotional and then all your comments; I consider it a great blessing to me…. from God….. through all of you. You have all expressed well the great struggles through personal loss AND the faithfulness of God so well. I cannot add another thing except to say you all bless me a ton! God bless you and keep you in His steady and constant care. Love, mary
And Tom, if you are reading; I join the others here in praying for your family’s peace and that the God of all comfort be found the trustworthy and faithful companion He is.
Tom Felten on June 9, 2016 at 8:44 pm
You bless us too, Mary. So grateful for you presence within this community. Keep joining us from your home in the country!