Sadly, all of us—even the best of us—have prejudices. I was shocked to one day realize my own prejudice against a Christian denomination. I’d been deeply hurt by people in it, and any time the denomination’s name came up, words like “Pharisees,” “legalists,” and “unloving” came to mind. I basically thought, Can anything good come from that denomination?
Nathanael once asked a similar question pertaining to Jesus’ hometown.
It all started when Philip told Nathanael that Jesus was the one that “Moses and the prophets wrote about” (John 1:45)—the promised Messiah. But Nathanael’s response indicated that Nazareth had a bad rep. How was it possible that the Messiah could come from such a no-good, dirty, rotten place? Though it’s not recorded, perhaps Nathanael thought to himself, The Messiah’s supposed to come from Bethlehem. For at that moment, Nathanael had no idea that Jesus was actually born there! (Luke 2:1-6).
Nathanael was prejudiced against the Nazarene people; he didn’t think they amounted to much or had much—if anything—to offer the world. But Jesus gave him the surprise of his life. The Savior and Deliverer did grow up in no-good Nazareth, of all places. In Nathanael’s first conversation with Jesus, it was so evident that He was indeed the Messiah that Nathanael cried out: “Rabbi, you are the Son of God—the King of Israel!” (John 1:49).
I’ve asked God for forgiveness and have strived to counter my prejudice by thinking of all the lovely people who belong to the denomination I once loathed. Their lives have countered my bias.
Yes, each one of us has prejudices. But praise God that He’s unprejudiced and shows no favoritism (Romans 2:11). May we follow His loving ways!
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Philippians 3:1-21
More:
Read James 2:1-8 and consider what it looks like to show prejudice against others in the body of Christ and those outside of it.
Next:
Consider the areas in your life where you are prejudiced. If you’re unsure, ask God to reveal them to you. How might you overcome your wrong thinking by His power?
Gary Shultz on December 4, 2015 at 8:18 am
You are absolutely right. It’s like the wack-a-mole game about the time you think you are getting somewhere other feelings arise that need corrected. Thankfully for us the Spirit helps identify those areas and encourages us to purge them from our lives. The fight of the old man is a never ending battle; however, we should always be gaining ground. Our life today should be more victorious then a few years ago. The continual flow of the godly life, out with the bad, in with the good. Thank God He never tires of helping us with this process. Thanks, have a blessed Christmas
Tim Gustafson on December 4, 2015 at 8:52 am
Marlena, thanks for this great reminder of a hidden prejudice that so many of us who grew up in the church are susceptible to. Funny thing; it turns out the church is full of human beings. 🙂 So often I find myself holding others to a higher standard, yet I want grace for my sins.
Marlena Graves on December 4, 2015 at 2:22 pm
Tim, isn’t that so! We’re easier on ourselves than we are on others!
Tom Felten on December 4, 2015 at 9:17 am
Good word, Marlena. May I see people today the way God sees them—offering grace, forgiveness, and love!
Marlena Graves on December 4, 2015 at 2:24 pm
What would it be to have the eyes of Jesus all of the time! Thank you. May I see as he sees!
Mike Wittmer on December 4, 2015 at 1:55 pm
Thank you for your transparency, Marlena. It’s easy to slide into these patterns, and assume that people will always be what they have always been. But God! I love how God surprises us, and appears in the least likely places. Makes me want to look for him today!
Marlena Graves on December 4, 2015 at 2:23 pm
That is a good reminder; people are not always what they were. If they are true followers of Jesus there should be growth. God reminds me all of the time not to demonize or mentally dehumanize those of that denomination who have hurt my family and me.
Roxanne Robbins on December 5, 2015 at 1:09 am
This past week I was studying this very thing; when servants of the Lord rose up despite being surrounded by people choosing to stray from God or worship other Gods. Thank you for the good reminder that Jesus himself went on to become King of King and Lord of Lords despite growing up in Nazareth.
Winn Collier on December 5, 2015 at 5:27 pm
It’s easier to cast aspersions at the idea of something (or someone) than it is to grapple with the person (or reality) as they actually are, huh?