In 2014, a pod of pilot whales was found floundering in perilously shallow water off the shore of Florida in the US. Forty or fifty short-finned whales remained close to a narrow shoreline—choosing not to swim out to the deeper waters, where they would be safe. Several of the blackfish were ill, which caused conservationists to worry. Pilot whales are intensely loyal creatures, and when one in their group is sick or in jeopardy, the rest of the pod simply will not leave. They form a circle and stay close together.
The Scriptures call God’s people to this kind of life, where we stick close to each other and find our life alongside others. We’re called to help meet one another’s needs, to tend to one another in our time of weakness or lack, and to protect one another during perilous stretches that we will inevitably endure. If someone finds himself overwhelmed by temptation, we shouldn’t reject him, but “gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path” (Galatians 6:1). If someone finds herself in distress or grief, isolation or pain, we should “share [her] burdens” (Galatians 6:2).
We may not know what to do or say. In fact, we may have no idea how to help. We can, however, simply walk close to our brothers and sisters. We can put our shoulder next to theirs and say, “I don’t know what to do. I have no answers here. But I can carry your burden alongside you.”
I find it instructive—and hopeful—that Paul didn’t say we’re to fix one another’s burdens. We’re simply to bear them. Their burdens are also our burdens, and—in time—our burdens will also be their own. Let’s choose to walk next to our hurting brothers and sisters in Jesus today.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Deuteronomy 30:1-20
More:
Read John 13:34-35 and consider what happens when we truly love and care for other believers in Jesus.
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Is there someone you believe God would have you walk beside, bearing his burdens? How can you begin to share your burdens more freely with others?
Gary Shultz on February 24, 2015 at 5:55 am
Care for others is part 2 in our greatest life work. It also has that great by product of showing a world a glimpse of part 1 to love the Lord our God with all of our energies seeing that love reflected in practical ways should be attractive.
Winn Collier on February 28, 2015 at 5:33 pm
yup, Gary, right there together.
Gene on February 24, 2015 at 6:54 am
What you bring out is something we can all do. We don’t have to be experts in counseling or have solutions. We just need to be there, listen, and show our support. I think this is also demonstrated by Job’s friends in the beginning of his ordeal in Job 2:13, “No one said a word to him.” His friends had a lot to say later, but they had a good start. Thanks for sharing Winn.
Winn Collier on February 28, 2015 at 5:34 pm
Thank goodness we don’t have to be experts, Gene
Tom Felten on February 24, 2015 at 10:22 am
Winn, good insights. So often when we try to “fix” the issue we only cause more strain and pain. May we humbly, lovingly walk with those who need us today. Carrying their burdens allows God to work in both their hearts and our own.
Winn Collier on February 28, 2015 at 5:35 pm
that’s right, Tom. It does healing in our heart just as much.