Two teenage Chinese brothers are living with us as they attend school in the US. Since we have three biological sons, my wife and I call Dongyao and Dongpeng our “Chinese sons.” They have loving parents in China, but we’re also striving to love them well. We now have five kids!
The apostle John had ministered for a couple of decades among the Gentiles in the Roman province of Asia (modern-day Turkey). As he sat down to pen a letter to the believers that he loved and cared for, these words gushed out: “See how very much our Father loves us, for he calls us his children, and that is what we are” (1 John 3:1).
It’s true: If we belong to God, we’re His kids. And John unfolds what that means:
We have the image of Jesus, and one day we will dwell with Him. John writes, “We are already God’s children, but he has not yet shown us what we will be like when Christ appears” (1 John 3:2).
We’re to keep ourselves pure, “just as he is pure” (1 John 3:3). Since we’re God’s kids through salvation in Jesus, we shouldn’t persist in sin—it goes against the new nature we’ve been given. John writes, “Those who have been born into God’s family do not make a practice of sinning, because God’s life is in them” (1 John 3:9).
Notice John’s words: makes “a practice of sinning.” As he previously laid out in 1 John 3:6, the issue isn’t the occasional sin. Since we still battle a sin nature, we will all fall from time to time. But to persist in a sin doesn’t reflect God and His holiness—we don’t look like His kids.
John concludes: “Anyone who does not live righteously and does not love other believers does not belong to God” (1 John 3:10). Instead, when we exhibit righteous and loving ways we show that we’re His kids!
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: John 20:1-18
More:
Read Romans 8:18-30 and consider what it says about our future with Jesus.
Next:
What do you need to work on to show that you’re one of God’s kids? If you’re persisting in sin, what are you “telling” God? What are you telling yourself?
BearPair on September 28, 2014 at 12:09 am
Yes, yes! Good words, Tom–thanks! As parents of 3 biological children, and far more than that of spiritual kids from coast to coast, we trully identify wt John’s thoughts. “His kids” pretty well sums us all up, doesn’t it!
Tom Felten on September 29, 2014 at 11:17 am
It does, BearPair. I’m so thankful that He’s given us the Holy Spirit to help us live in ways that reflect His holiness and love!
ghchong on September 28, 2014 at 1:16 am
Worldly repentance should come with godly repentance too. Many of us were taught well – we should really move on.
Tom Felten on September 29, 2014 at 11:22 am
ghchong, yes, it’s so important to live with a spirit of continuous repentance as we seek to honor Jesus!
Gary Shultz on September 28, 2014 at 6:53 am
It is truly wonderful to be a child of God, now. I do really like Rev.21:7 (NIV 1984) the overcomer will be My son. Newer translations have children, older son. What an impact to consider a promotion to a mature son and all that goes with that. Thanks for reminding us that we are always part of God’s forever family.
Tom Felten on September 29, 2014 at 11:23 am
Thanks for sharing that verse, Gary. Very helpful!
twiceborn777 on September 28, 2014 at 9:15 am
I remember reading that we have only one Spiritual Father Jesus Christ the LORD. And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven. Matt 23:9. Beware of considering anyone a spiritual child as we do them a disservice causing them to call us father, and take glory from the One who causes a person to be born again.
Tom Felten on September 29, 2014 at 11:25 am
twiceborn777, It’s incredible to know that—in Christ—we have a heavenly Father who knows and loves us. Even if our earthly fathers have hurt us or let us down, we have a Father who will always be there for us!
Winn Collier on October 1, 2014 at 2:00 pm
Having 2 boys myself, I’ve been thinking much about this combination of wild love that demands nothing in return mixed with how the wild love moves me to train the boys and help them to become the men who would live with courage and joy (and give this courage and joy to others). One feeds the other, don’t they?