Standing near the body of his older brother, his pain was visible. Adding to the weight of death was the knowledge that their relationship had been the closest thing he’d ever known to that of a father and son. His brother had always said, “I love you,” whenever they parted. But the differences in their lives, the jagged edges of their arguments, and the absence of true intimacy left this grieving man wondering if his love was real.
Beloved. We find this deeply powerful word at the start of 1 John 4:7 (NKJV). It’s translated from the Greek word agapetos, which means “beloved, esteemed, dear, favorite, worthy of love.” More than a passive acceptance of another, the word is replete with action and commitment.
First at Jesus’ baptism and later at His transfiguration, the Gospels record God’s declaration of Jesus not simply as His Son, but His beloved Son (Matthew 3:17, Matthew 12:18, Matthew 17:5 NKJV). Later, Paul used this same terminology to describe God’s gracious rescue of humanity in “the Beloved” (Ephesians 1:6 NKJV). In this way, the word beloved points to His great love for us.
But are we convinced?
The pain in our lives can sometimes make us feel rejected by God. When we listen to this false message, we begin turning to lesser gods to find comfort—like food, television, sex, or work success. We hide from relationships, get lost in various activities, or try desperately to prove that we’re worthy of love.
Even so, God keeps pouring out His grace on us. His call to us has already gone forth: “I will call those who were not My people, ‘My people,’ and her who was not beloved, ‘beloved’ ” (Romans 9:25 NASB; see also Hosea 2:23). He is the faithful Father whose love is more than abundant. It’s more than enough.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: John 1:35-51
More:
Read 1 John 3:1-16 and consider how knowing we are loved by God can affect our choices and relationships.
Next:
Why have you sometimes felt that you’re unworthy of love? How can our sense of rejection be a place of idolatry in our lives?
LCC on June 17, 2014 at 12:44 am
This article reminded me of Paul’s prayer in Ephesians 3 : 17-19 ” -And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
Also how much God loves us again and again… He is so patient. 2 Peter 3 :15 “…our Lord’s patience means salvation”.
Wayne on June 17, 2014 at 7:48 am
This is such a bad habit, Lord please help me not to judge and criticize others, I’m sorry. Help me to
Encourage and lift people up. Thank you Jesus for
Helping me.
Sincerely,
Wayne Mercer 6/17/14
Mike Wittmer on June 17, 2014 at 8:20 pm
Thank you, Regina! It’s sometimes so hard to open myself up to God and believe that He loves me that much. Your gentle nudge is just what I needed.
hisjoy on June 18, 2014 at 12:08 pm
Thanks Rebecca for this message. For a long time, I turned to the lesser god of human love looking for approval and acceptance, because I felt rejected by God.
Indeed God is gracious and does forgive our sins and restores us back to be his beloved people.