Tim Kreider wrote about modern-day busyness in a New York Times opinion column. His piece titled “The ‘Busy’ Trap” included a personal experience in which he contacted a friend about getting together. The friend replied that he was busy but might be persuaded to “ditch work for a few hours” if “something was going on.” Kreider didn’t press for a rendezvous. He described his friend’s busyness as “some vast, churning noise through which he was shouting.”
The busier we become, the harder it is to reach out to people who need our companionship, care, and help. Abishai, an Old Testament warrior (1 Chronicles 11:20), extended himself to help David when “David and his men were in the thick of battle” (2 Samuel 21:15). I can think of few busier, more frenzied scenes in the Old Testament than this clash with the Philistines. It must have been overwhelming, fast-paced, and adrenaline-filled. Kind of like life today (but with clubs and spears!).
During this battle, “David became weak and exhausted” (2 Samuel 21:15), and an enemy named Ishbi-benob had him cornered. This guy was large, armed with a 7-pound spear and a shiny new sword. As he closed in for the kill, “Abishai . . . came to David’s rescue and killed the Philistine” (2 Samuel 21:17). Abishai had a history of loyalty to Israel’s king (2 Samuel 16:9). So it’s no surprise that he chose David’s welfare over his own as the battle raged around them.
Abishai’s actions can inspire us to look past all that is going on around us as we help our comrades. When life gets hectic and demands are assaulting us from every angle, busyness may test our loyalties. Will we be faithful to the things that occupy our time, or to the people who matter the most?
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: John 1:1-18
More:
Read Philippians 2:4 for some insight into relationship maintenance. Look up John 15:13 to see how Jesus demonstrated His friendship to His followers.
Next:
How does busyness affect our “friendship” with God? Why should we strive to do more rather than to be more?
rollingwoodfarm on June 5, 2013 at 9:49 am
Abishai is a fascinating man. I have enjoyed reading Cliff Graham’s books about David and his mighty men. We have an excellent model in Abishai to follow in our relationship with our Lord Jeses Christ!
jennifer benson schuldt on June 5, 2013 at 3:01 pm
rollingwoodfarm,
Isn’t it interesting to see how even the minor characters in the Bible all have something to teach us? When I think of Abishai, I’m challenged to be more loyal, more brave, and more selfless when it comes to my relationship with others.
tom felten on June 5, 2013 at 10:13 am
Jen, thanks for lifting up this topic. Several years ago I read an interesting book titled Margin by Dr. Richard Svenson. One thing he describes in its pages is the need for us to have margin—spiritually, emotionally, and physically (finances, etc.), so that we have the time/resources to serve and help others as needs arise. By having margin in our lives, it also allows us to be healthier and able to serve God in joy and strength, not passivity and weariness.
jennifer benson schuldt on June 5, 2013 at 3:09 pm
Hi Tom,
I have that book on my shelf! Sadly, I have not read it yet. The concept of “margin” in life is so important. I find myself struggling with margin most as it relates to time management. Hence, today’s article was a sermon to myself. 🙂 It’s true that when we are constantly over-extended in certain areas we become more willing to let things go that need to be dealt with in other areas. Our margin “issues” can create stewardship “issues”. Thankfully, we have the Bible to help us with our priorities (Colossians 3:2).