Rachel, the daughter of fellow ODJ author Jeff Olson, is a young woman I love as if she were my own. Recently, she completed an 8-month missions trip. During that time, I became concerned when she contracted malaria while serving in a rural part of Kenya. Fortunately, her health was restored after taking some strong meds. Rachel’s ministry for Jesus definitely caused her to be affected physically. Her emotions were even more affected, however, as she poured herself into people who were dealing with the effects of sin.
We often talk about effective ministry. But it’s true that serving others for Jesus is also affective. Paul was affected to the point of tears in his dealings with the church at Corinth (2 Corinthians 2:4). In a previous “painful visit,” he had rebuked the Corinthian church—encouraging them to repent of their sin (2 Corinthians 2:1). An unnamed man apparently verbally attacked Paul at that time (2 Corinthians 2:5). Paul refers to a “severe letter” that was sent after his visit, calling the people to repent of their sin (2 Corinthians 7:8-10).
Paul knew how it felt to be affected as he served others. You and I can expect the same thing. We give away a piece of ourselves when we lovingly choose to help people deal with sin, addictions, pain, and discouragement.
But blessings often wait in the wings. In Paul’s case, the unnamed “villain” in Corinth apparently repented of his evil ways. And though he had been adversely affected, the apostle did not hold a grudge. Instead, he implored the people at Corinth to “forgive and comfort” the man (2 Corinthians 2:7). Paul went on to write, “When you forgive this man, I forgive him, too” (2 Corinthians 2:10).
Yes, from malaria to malcontents, ministering to others for Jesus will affect us. But the lasting effects can be a beautiful thing.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: 1 Samuel 1:1-28
More:
Read John 11:32-36 and note how Jesus was affected as He ministered in Bethany.
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How have you been affected by your ministry to others for Jesus? Why is it both good and difficult to be affected this way?
Gene on March 19, 2013 at 7:10 am
The man caused trouble and hurt Paul and the church body, but the power of love allowed forgiveness, comfort, and reaffirmation through Christ’s authority. I’ve been on the giving and receiving end of this model of restoration and it affects me by helping me grow as a Christian. I also pray Rachel’s health is fully restored.
tom felten on March 19, 2013 at 10:00 am
Gene, you’re so right. It’s can be painful to be “affected” by others, but God uses these times to help us grow and mature in our faith. Thanks for your concern for Rachel, yes, she is doing well. In fact, she’s leading a missions trip this summer.
columbia415 on March 19, 2013 at 8:54 am
C. S. Lewis wrote: “To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken.”
We love because God loves us. We must continue to love no matter how broken our hearts may be. Don’t ever stop loving!
tom felten on March 19, 2013 at 10:04 am
Good thoughts, columbia415. This reminded me of what Jesus said in Luke 7:47, ““I tell you, her sins—and they are many—have been forgiven, so she has shown me much love. But a person who is forgiven little shows only little love.” It’s also true that a person who loves much will be affected much!
mike on March 19, 2013 at 12:38 pm
Amen my brother, thank you for sharing your heart.
As Christ followers it is so important that we have hearts that are willing to engage and connect ourselves with those lives searching for significance but looking it for it in the wrong places.
Blessings!!
tom felten on March 19, 2013 at 4:20 pm
Blessings to you, Mike. I’m reminded that Jesus repeatedly connected with those who, as you wrote, were “searching for significance but looking for it in the wrong places.” Let’s keep chasing after His heart!
regina franklin on March 19, 2013 at 9:39 pm
Tom–thank you for a vivid reminder that to truly be a witness, we must be affected by His love for others.
mike wittmer on March 21, 2013 at 10:36 am
This is inspiring, Tom. I am challenged to “leave it all on the field,” serving others with my whole heart and not just in some perfunctory way.