Rhythm and blues artist Rihanna sang of the power of friendship to pull us through cloudy weather in her hit song Umbrella. “Now that it’s raining more than ever,” she sings, “Know that we’ll still have each other; You can stand under my umbrella.” An umbrella is a memorable metaphor for our need to help each other, but it also indicates how little we can actually do for our friends.
An umbrella is flimsy—perfect for a summer shower but useless in a driving rain or stiff wind. I’ll gladly hold the umbrella for the loved ones in my life, but there will be days when they’ll need so much more. When we stagger against the pounding surf of betrayal, cancer, and foreclosure, we don’t need a mere umbrella. We need a rock.
David wrote a song when he was rescued from the stormy pursuit of Saul. And though David’s chorus lacked the catchy Caribbean rhythms of Rihanna, his content was even more inspiring. He said he was drowning in the sea of despair: “The waves of death overwhelmed me; floods of destruction swept over me.” So “I called on the Lord, who is worthy of praise, and He saved me from my enemies” (2 Samuel 22:4-5).
Rihanna’s song makes an excellent point, but it also illustrates the poverty of those who don’t know Jesus. She sings, “I’ll be here forever. Said I’ll always be your friend. . . . So go on, let the rain pour, I’ll be all you need and more.” Sure, Rihanna means well, but she’s promising her friend more than she can deliver. The fact is that she won’t be here forever. She can’t be “all you need.” No one can.
Thank God for the umbrellas in your life. Take them as His signs for what you really need—a rock, a fortress, and a Savior.
NLT 365-day reading plan passage for today: Exodus 9:8–10:29
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Savor the promises of Psalm 46. How can this psalm help you to survive—and thrive— in a crisis?
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Who needs you to be their umbrella? Consider how you might also lead them to the Rock.
Aganos on February 8, 2012 at 3:33 am
Yes! We need the rock Jesus Christ that no storm can shake! God bless you for the reminder.
sheridan voysey on February 8, 2012 at 3:34 am
Great reflection Mike. It’s too easy to mouth shallow promises of ‘being there forever’ when the tune is fun to sing to. But He stands closer than a brother.
nivla on February 8, 2012 at 7:37 am
praise You JESUS..You truly are the ROCK of my life…
lindafrances on February 8, 2012 at 10:44 am
There was a time when I relied on my mom, almost completely, in good times, in difficult times. She was such a godly women who pursued God with such passion and touched so many people’s life that I wanted to be like her; she was my earthly example of Jesus.
When my mom died of cancer 88 days after being diagnosed, my life crumbled. I relied too much on her and had to go through grief, at the same time I learned to really rely completely on God.
Today when difficulties come, I go directly to the source that has complete control of all things. I know I can weather the storms, because Jesus walks with me and comforts me. He won’t ever leave.
mike wittmer on February 8, 2012 at 3:27 pm
linda: That is a great story–you have already experienced what I was trying to say. Thanks!