Popular culture reveres pride. Celebrities bathe in their narcissism, only to gain even more fans. Kids on the playground imitate the self-promoting celebrations of their favorite athletes. Arrogance masquerades as “confidence,” while meekness becomes a dirty word.

But if personal pride is such a good thing, why is it that no one likes to live close to a proud person? Jesus showed us a radically different way. As He commissioned 72 disciples to do some advance work for Him, He pushed them out of their comfort zone. He hinted that they might face rejection (Luke 10:10). Yet they were to take nothing extra with them. Instead, they were to rely on the kindness of the people they visited (vv.3-7). Jesus left no room for self-sufficiency.

His followers enjoyed great success stating, “Even the demons obey us when we use Your name!” (v.17). But Jesus replied, “Don’t rejoice because evil spirits obey you; rejoice because your names are registered in heaven” (v.20).

Jesus is always taking us out of our comfort zone. As He does, it nurtures our complete reliance on Him. But when we find success, we naturally gravitate toward personal pride in “our” accomplishments. This is not the reaction Jesus wants. He desires our gratitude for belonging to the Lord of heaven and earth. “O Father,” He prayed, “thank You for hiding these things from those who think themselves wise and clever, and for revealing them to the childlike” (v.21). “The kingdom of God belongs to those who are like these children,” said Jesus on another occasion (Mark 10:14). That’s a far cry from the “mature” pride our society esteems.

Pride is something we all need to work on giving up—for good.