Eight years ago, I came to a point of crisis in my prayer life. We had lost two teenagers who were very involved in our youth ministry, watched our pastor face serious health issues, and traveled a difficult road in our marriage because of all the ministry stress we were facing. Joining my husband in praying with a family during a hospital visit, I was ready to see God move. When I later found out that the little girl had died despite our prayers, turmoil ensued. “Why bother praying?” I said. My husband, facing his own questions, had this answer: “Because God says so.”
Telling them of the widow and the unjust judge (Luke 18:1-8), Jesus admonished His disciples to be persistent in prayer. Interestingly enough, He ends His lesson by saying, “But when the Son of Man, returns, how many will He find who have faith?” (v.8). Countless times I have allowed the outcome to determine my level of faith, rather than letting my faith lead me to a deeper understanding of prayer.
Unable to escape circumstances, we allow them to blind us, and—subsequently—we lose sight of the battle. Daniel, however, submitted to God’s will. In doing so, he refused to be moved from his declaration of faith in the power of God. He knew God would answer (Daniel 10:12-19). In 2 Corinthians 5:7 we read, “We live by believing and not by seeing.” Imagine the turn of events if Daniel had given up when the answer was delayed!
The enemy wants to keep us focused on self and distracted from the battle. While unconfessed sin and unforgiveness keeps our prayers from being heard (Isaiah 59:2; Matthew 6:15), we can know God hears when we submit to His will and remain immovable in our faith (1 John 5:14-15).
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Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus (1 Thess. 5:17-18).
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Have you become discouraged in prayer regarding a particular need? What does it mean to submit to God’s will?
bethanyF on February 26, 2010 at 7:29 am
I really need to pray more. I sort of pray as I am doing random things during the day. Yesterday I especially went to a prayer house outside of the Catholic church. I am protestant, but stopped at the prayer house that has candles and insence especially to talk to God. I prayed for my family members and my Grandmother who is dying of cancer. The Lord is good and I should get into the habit of praying any and everywhere.
regina franklin on February 26, 2010 at 8:59 am
I hear what you are saying. The more I am with Him, the more I realize I need Him (and want Him). Praying peace for your family in this time.
Soldier4Christ on March 6, 2010 at 8:01 am
Bethany I am sorry to hear about your Grandmother. I will keep you and your family in prayer. Keep up the good fight and walk with God everyday, all day. No matter where you are at you can always talk to God. He is there waiting for you day or night.
Brianbenyosef on February 26, 2010 at 8:15 am
I believe the reason GOD wants us as Christians to be persistant in prayer is to show our faith. GOD does not always answer right away but he always answers. I believe there are three answers… Yes,No, and Wait. I will wait on the Lord. Persevere in prayer and wait on the Lord!
regina franklin on February 26, 2010 at 8:57 am
Yes–and what God is after most is our willingness to be with Him. I have learned to look for this aspect of prayer as the truest blessing and yet also have learned I can rejoice with great joy when I do see the fruits of persistence in prayer in terms of a realized answer or tangible evidence that God has heard my heart.
Paul G on February 26, 2010 at 10:29 am
About 4+ years ago my wife and I strated getting up early (5AM) to spend the first hour of the day in prayer, bible study and reflection. This is perhaps the best thing we have ever done in our Christian life. Although I do battle every morning with the mattress once I get out of bed we so enjoy our time with God. Prayer is one of those things that we “must show up for practice” – if we don’t then I fear much of our Christianity will be like “sitting on the bench” Aloha
Soldier4Christ on March 6, 2010 at 7:58 am
I agree Paul, I started getting up an extra hour or more early everyday this year so that I am able to start my day with prayer and bible study. I find that my day goes so much better when I start out that way. I now wouldn’t want to miss that time that I get to spend with God each and everyday.
God bless.
Gary4orphans on February 26, 2010 at 10:49 am
I think it has been well said that the purpose of prayer is not to bend God to our will but to align ourselves with His will. I think it well to pray that God will help me to pray in alignment with His perfect will, plan, purposes and timing. The “odds” of getting a “yes” answer dramatically improve as our prayers are close to the heart of God already and we seek to pray “in support” and in agreement with His will. Regardless of any specific request we may have for others or ourselves, an acknowledgement that “His Will Be Done” is a good thing. He sees the whole big picture and we see such a tiny little piece. God is on the Throne and as we keep that in mind we will find our prayers getting favorable consideration.
SufficientGrace on February 26, 2010 at 11:12 am
I have an overwhelming desire to pray more often than I do. Like Christ, I want to go away from the crowds and spend time in prayer. Unfortunately, I have so many responsibilities, I pray on the run. I so desperately want (and need) to spend more time communing with God. This is a great point of frustration for me. By God’s grace, He does hear my prayers and answers them according to His will, but I feel like an inadequate Christian if I don’t spend one hour in prayer each day.
mprez2006 on February 27, 2010 at 10:41 am
Lately I’ve been praying in the morning instead of my usual nightly prayers!! this morning, something awesome happened! though it’s a saturday, my body just wouldn’t let me sleep past 730 and the first thing on my mind was…i need to pray!! that had never happened before. never have i rose with the desire to pray! God is changing me!
leeco17 on February 28, 2010 at 1:14 pm
this is a struggle i have in my walk with God. the bible says ‘pray without ceasing” if you have a desire from GOd that” his will be done” this i fully understand this is the problem i have is the fine line when do we “pray without ceasing” and when do we fully “turn it over to God” because if we pray without ceasing isn’t this the same as not leaving it in Gods hand and not to worrying about a situation that we left in Gods hand?
regina franklin on February 28, 2010 at 3:12 pm
Good question! For me, praying without ceasing means a continued recognition in prayer that God is working and moving. If I am praying my will without ceasing, then I really haven’t surrendered the desire to Him.
However, when I put my request before Him and continue to pray His will, then I am staying in a place of surrender. When God asks us to place things into His hands, I believe He is asking us to enter into His heart for the situation through prayer.
Praying without ceasing also relates to so many things–praying for those who suffer around the world for their faith, praying that we be changed into the likeness of Christ in our lives, praying for the leading of the Lord in each decision we face as we go through our days. To pray without ceasing is to recognize that everything belongs to Him.
leeco17 on March 1, 2010 at 8:34 am
thanks Regina this really clears this up.i love your advice. i have asked others before but they haven’t been able to give me a new perspective. this has been an issue for me for sometime. because i always knew that God answers our prayers be it yes , no, or wait. i do want to surrender fully because i do have faith that he will do want is the best for me
HisBride on March 6, 2010 at 8:15 am
God is sooo God for letting me view this conversation.. I just had a wonderful insight about praying without ceasing..had read that it is not an exercise but the life of the saint..in my heart I asked god why..Praying is our way of communication with God,involves speaking and listening…includes verbal and non verbal…had a struggle on my own way of practicing prayer before, but this is just not a practice…it’s a way of life…we’re not always concious of God ,but as we live our lives in full surrender to Him and His ways, we’re already praying without ceasing..same thing as being joyful always and thankful always…
Soldier4Christ on March 6, 2010 at 8:20 am
This morning as in past times recently, not only have I had the privilege to take everything to God in prayer but I have had the blessings of the answers to those prayers from God. I have been a believer all of my life but this year I made a commitment to God to give it all up to Him, to have God show me His plan for my life as my plans weren’t working out. Since doing this I can only say that I wish I had given myself totally to God a long time ago. He has so blessed me with real time answers from His word and from my devotions. We serve an awesome God.
regina franklin on February 28, 2010 at 3:07 pm
Dear learning2serve–you offer great wisdom in your response.
Sufficient Grace–There are times and seasons in our walk with the Lord. Spiritual disciplines do not bring us favor from God–they are a tool for building intimacy but not the means of our salvation.
This past year, I returned to teaching after a 7 year hiatus. I have learned in this season that the most important thing is staying in communion with the Lord on a daily basis. What that looks like from day to day may differ. Some days, I have the opportunity to pray and read the Word in the afternoon, others in the evening (and a few in the mornings).
Because my husband is in full-time ministry, many of our counseling times or ministry obligations take place in the evening. I spent a lot of time chastising myself for not being up for an hour in the morning before leaving for work. Going to bed after midnight many nights made it difficult to be up early. God reminded me, what matters is being with Him. Would I love to be up early in the mornings? Absolutely! But I cannot let my expectations (or man’s) keep me from intimacy with the Lord because I don’t feel like I measure up to what someone else is doing–and neither should I stand in judgment of another.
The point is to be in the Word and to pray.
With that said, there have also been times in my life where my devotional and prayer life was in a shambles. I had no problem spending two hours watching television in an evening but couldn’t spend even twenty minutes in devotional time with the Lord.
I was sharing with someone recently that when it comes to passion for the Lord, we want God to fix our passion problem. But I think that’s a misplaced expectation. When it came to worship in the tabernacle and the temple, the priests were directed not to let the fire go out by keeping the wood readily in place.
My life is to be an altar. My role is to keep the wood stocked (spending time in the Word and in prayer regardless of my feelings, not to forsake the assembling together with others, the consecration of my life to Him); then He brings the sustaining fire of His presence.
We do not want to fall under any of the enemy’s distractions–whether that be apathy or condemnation. It is by His empowering grace we have been saved . . . and it is by that same empowering grace that we continue growing in the Lord.