Many people think that being a Christian is as simple as saying the sinner’s prayer. When I was a child, I was told to write the date I said the prayer on the first page of my Bible so I could know beyond-the-shadow-of-a-doubt that I was saved.

Today, many people are rightly questioning whether “saying the magic words” is all that distinguishes Christians from others. But in making this good point, some suggest that it doesn’t matter what we believe as long as we love others. They say it is more important that we follow Jesus’ example than that we believe in Him. This is a false choice. God commands us both to “believe in the name of His Son, Jesus Christ, and love one another” (1 John 3:23). Belief and love flourish together, for only those who believe in Jesus possess the power and motivation to truly love like He does.

Followers of Christ believe that we were born in sin, bent on having our own way rather than submitting to God. But God reached out to us, sending His Son to suffer our punishment and sending His Spirit through whom we have “a new birth and new life” (Titus 3:5). This is why Jesus told Nicodemus that he would be “born of the Spirit” when he believed that God “gave His one and only Son” (John 3:8,16).

The moment we truly believe in Jesus, we are indwelt by the Holy Spirit. Only then can we produce the fruit of the Spirit—the first of which is love (Galatians 5:22). Believing the gospel also supplies love’s motivation, for those who realize they have been forgiven are naturally inclined to love and forgive others. Genuine Christians never stop loving—and they never stop loving because they never stop believing.